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Think 2 needle junkies can last forever? I do. :-)

I'm sorry, I've been in this kind of relationship and eventually I got sick of the needle and living for it. My girlfriend however, did not. We separated after being together for a bit over 2 years. I think it's bound to fail eventually, but I hope I can be proven wrong.
 
I'm not trying to be a dick here, just want to put things into perspective.

The vast, vast majority of hardcore junkies at one point had a "system" e.g. Only using on weekends, never three days in a row, etc. Slowly the rules become more lenient, and eventually you find yourself in hell.

I wish you luck, and maybe you fit into the 1% that can permanently stick to your "system". I just want to point out that the odds and general experience are completely against you.
 
RedRum OG said:
I'm not trying to be a dick here, just want to put things into perspective.

The vast, vast majority of hardcore junkies at one point had a "system" e.g. Only using on weekends, never three days in a row, etc. Slowly the rules become more lenient, and eventually you find yourself in hell.

I wish you luck, and maybe you fit into the 1% that can permanently stick to your "system". I just want to point out that the odds and general experience are completely against you.
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Totally.
It's hard enough for one person to stick to the 'system' they put in place, let alone two people.
You both may have the best intentions when it comes down to it, but this shit changes the game.
The rules are out the window. Dope makes people do crazy things.
 
it could definitely work if you are both rich as fuck. The problem is money for most people and when push comes to shove i'm getting high before anyone else (well sometimes i share equally with my gf).

2 drug users can maintain a long term relationship if they only use them recreationally, if you are addicted and not just dependent, then there are inevitable issues that will pop up, the big one being money and if one wants to get clean and the other doesn't. I don't see how it could work out, even just me being the junkie in the relationship has at times made it almost impossible to stay together, i can't imagine having someone else going down the dark path that i did at the same time. My gf was there to back me up and keep my shit together as i went through opiate/benzo addiction, if we were both going that same route, shit would have gone downhill fast. But hey, you never know, it may work.
 
I've been in relationships (kind of am in one now) where we will agree to only do something every now and again.. or.. that we won't do substance X again.. All it takes is for one of us to say "I want some X" for the other one to respond with: "yeah me too".. or it's a "noooo but we said" and the other party then saying "yeah but it's been x amount of time / if we only get this much / it's all goooooood"......
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I was in a perfect relationship with someone until 6 months ago. We started off sober in 2010 and about a year in we started doing drugs together. I had 6 years clean off of meth at the time. He came home one night with some heroin, which I'd never tried at the time. I tried to say no at first, but he was gonna do it with or without me and at some point I decided I'd rather be in Hell WITH him, than in Heaven WITHOUT him. I figured that in time it would run it's course and we'd both get clean. And for a year we got high together. He got busted a couple times & I got him out. And the last time I bailed him out he said we need to get clean or I'm gonna keep ending up behind bars. I was glad. I was ready. Then he said go get some dope & lets get high one more time before we get clean. One more time. I was strung out. He didn't have to ask me twice. Besides, I'd just gotten him out of jail that morning. He deserved to have some fun. I fell asleep without even doing my shot because I was so tired and relieved to have him home. I woke up the next morning and found him dead on the floor next to the bed. Now I live every day with what-ifs. What if I'd never bailed him out? What if I'd held my ground in the beginning instead of giving in and letting him go down that road? What if I'd said no to going to pick up that night? He was already clean from being locked up. It was my dumb ass who was afraid to kick & only too happy to put it off one more day.

But we were happy together. Both when we were sober and when we weren't. He was my best friend and he loved me like no one before ever has. Did I mention we planned to get married in the next few days too?
So you and your boyfriend need to get off the shit before one of you is left with nothing but your habit and an empty bed. It's too late for me, but not for you.
 
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how long has this been going on? what issues are you 2 not dealing with, hence being junkies... generally the story goes things get to be too much, and all hell breaks loose...are you highly functioning addicts)this phrase has always seemed to be a contradiction in terms, for me, personally)?
 
carniegirl818 said:
I was in a perfect relationship with someone until 6 months ago. We started off sober in 2010 and about a year in we started doing drugs together. I had 6 years clean off of meth at the time. He came home one night with some heroin, which I'd never tried at the time. I tried to say no at first, but he was gonna do it with or without me and at some point I decided I'd rather be in Hell WITH him, than in Heaven WITHOUT him. I figured that in time it would run it's course and we'd both get clean. And for a year we got high together. He got busted a couple times & I got him out. And the last time I bailed him out he said we need to get clean or I'm gonna keep ending up behind bars. I was glad. I was ready. Then he said go get some dope & lets get high one more time before we get clean. One more time. I was strung out. He didn't have to ask me twice. Besides, I'd just gotten him out of jail that morning. He deserved to have some fun. I fell asleep without even doing my shot because I was so tired and relieved to have him home. I woke up the next morning and found him dead on the floor next to the bed. Now I live every day with what-ifs. What if I'd never bailed him out? What if I'd held my ground in the beginning instead of giving in and letting him go down that road? What if I'd said no to going to pick up that night? He was already clean from being locked up. It was my dumb ass who was afraid to kick & only too happy to put it off one more day.

But we were happy together. Both when we were sober and when we weren't. He was my best friend and he loved me like no one before ever has. Did I mention we planned to get married in the next few days too?
So you and your boyfriend need to get off the shit before one of you is left with nothing but your habit and an empty bed. It's too late for me, but not for you.
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Wow. That's such a sad story. I'm so sorry. :(
 
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