Sometimes its all bs and lies put in your mind from bad relationships...ideas engrained by lovers linger. But there's always lessons learned. What have you learned from past relationships that you will use in the one you have now or future ones?...or even the lies you need to deprogram yourself from lol?
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Things youve learned from past realtionships
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Bluelight Crew
Good idea for a thread.
Let's see...I've learned not to let myself get walked over and to stand up for myself. That's applicable to all areas of my life but I learned it mostly from my last LT relationship.
If he suddenly becomes distant and doesn't want to see you as much he's probably cheating.
If you're unhappy you should get out of it instead of staying in a bad relationship because you're afraid of being single - cuz chances are you'll just end up being dumped.
Oh yeah and don't date someone almost twice your age.
That's it off the top of my head
Let's see...I've learned not to let myself get walked over and to stand up for myself. That's applicable to all areas of my life but I learned it mostly from my last LT relationship.
If he suddenly becomes distant and doesn't want to see you as much he's probably cheating.
If you're unhappy you should get out of it instead of staying in a bad relationship because you're afraid of being single - cuz chances are you'll just end up being dumped.
Oh yeah and don't date someone almost twice your age.
That's it off the top of my head
hyroller
Bluelighter
that long-term friendships should not always be risked for the sake of hooking up ![:\](https://bluelight.org/xf/BL_Images/Orig_Emoji/wrygrin.gif "wry grin :\")
Ashley
Bluelight Crew
Do not lie. It is better to tell the truth, regardless of how bad it might seem to you and how scared you might be of losing the other person.
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pofacedhoe
Bluelight Crew
dont allow yourself to become in unrequited love with your straight best friend it will always end in tears.
bisexuals are often very good at head
all fuck buddies eventually dry up for one reason or another and finding new ones is effort
bisexuals are often very good at head
all fuck buddies eventually dry up for one reason or another and finding new ones is effort
rangrz
Bluelighter
that long-term friendships should not always be risked for the sake of hooking up
That long term friends can become lovers, and that lovers can become long term friends. Also that friends with benefits can be deep and meaningful friends. Most of all, a S/O who is not also your bro, is not really an S/O at all.