the thoughts in my head. FUCK!

[lars90]

Well their so complex I have huge troubles putting them into words which is really not good for my realtionshipts to other people. My thoughts arent in order and total caos my teachers keep telling me too.

Heres an exsample: Im in the fitness studio and I forgot if I had to do 12 rep on each arm or 6 reps on each arm so I ask the person next to me ,who has huge muscles so he should know, What I should do and this is how I try and explain my problem.
"Well, I forgot what my trainer said I should do if I should do 6 reps on every arm or 24 in total you know which would add up to 12 so 12 repts on each arm..." then he interupted me because he saw I was having troubles explaining and he knew what I ment. "6 reps are nough 12 rep would be way to much!"

See it doesnt sound so bad when I write but you should hear me trying to explain these things. I habe these clearfied thoughts put cant put then in the right order and the words just burst out in randome order.

Is their any way I can change it I can train thinking clear and talking more orgenisder?

 

[!_MDMA_!]

what do you want help with

 

[lars90]

what do you want help with

Sorr forgot to write that down. Updated

 

[Pagey]

Maybe you should kinda just take a deep breath and pause and extra second before saying anything? I'm not entirely sure what to say, is this disorganisation only a problem when you try to put thoughts into words or dyou feel like your thoughts themselves are like that?
Also I seem to recall you do a lot of RCs and the like (apologies if I'm getting you mixed up with someone else), dyou think that might have something to do with this?

 

[KoreyS]

Uhh pretty sure this is the guy who had a long hgistory of huffing paint

 

[Pagey]

^Well that would explain it

 

[rickolasnice]

^ Not helpful

OP.. you still huffing paint? Do you speak like that even to your friends?

 

[pofacedhoe]

what actually is the problem?

is it memory or forming sentences

disordered thoughts are symptomatic of a disordered mind but you shouldn't take it too seriously. teachers will always tell you your not good enough unless you'r a very clever student as its their job so dont rely too heavily on their input and they are just humans so subject to flaws like the rest of us

 

[llama112]

I sometimes have difficulty organizing my thoughts, mostly when I'm talking to people I don't know very well (or at all). Try and rehearse what you're going to say ahead of time. So you know you have to talk to this person, practice in your head (or out loud, if you have a bit of time) what you want to say. Have the sentence(s) formed already so you don't have to think about it at the same time.

 

[lars90]

Maybe you should kinda just take a deep breath and pause and extra second before saying anything? I'm not entirely sure what to say, is this disorganisation only a problem when you try to put thoughts into words or dyou feel like your thoughts themselves are like that?
Also I seem to recall you do a lot of RCs and the like (apologies if I'm getting you mixed up with someone else), dyou think that might have something to do with this?

Yeah use them allot. Allot is really relative ussed dex 6 times (never again!), and LSD and XTC in a combination once other wise nothing but ofcorse weed. Im not really a tripper. Im carefull with my use since Dex...
I dont trip allot in other words.

And yes the thoughts in my head are clear as a dimond just when I try and put them into words I stutter the wrong thigs come out and sometimes just toal shit. Usally just with people I dont know very well or very pretty girls I can talk with the "normal" ones -_-

Uhh pretty sure this is the guy who had a long hgistory of huffing paint

No, No Im not!

^ Not helpful

OP.. you still huffing paint? Do you speak like that even to your friends?

hahahahahhaha no Lol ^^
No just to people I dont...

i huffed duster once. felt surprisingly similar to nitrous

Holy fuck I do not huff paint Im not an ididot!

what actually is the problem?

is it memory or forming sentences

disordered thoughts are symptomatic of a disordered mind but you shouldn't take it too seriously. teachers will always tell you your not good enough unless you'r a very clever student as its their job so dont rely too heavily on their input and they are just humans so subject to flaws like the rest of us

Well sometimes I have trouble with recalling memory it just sometzimes takes longer than normal since dex but I really dont think that dex is the problem here... Well as far as know. But theirs an intresting thing about the dex story, because my thoughts started becomming really complex for a few months, complex and fast! Well Im not dumb! I was 3rd best in my class this year.
Why what would it feel like having disorder thoughts? I mean it hard to tell because I cand hear or see other people think. Please explain closer.

I sometimes have difficulty organizing my thoughts, mostly when I'm talking to people I don't know very well (or at all). Try and rehearse what you're going to say ahead of time. So you know you have to talk to this person, practice in your head (or out loud, if you have a bit of time) what you want to say. Have the sentence(s) formed already so you don't have to think about it at the same time.

I try it all the time its just if I want to say something to a joke that was just made or when I did something and some asks me why I cant just wait a minute and think.

 

[Pagey]

Oh okay well that doesn't sound too bad.

It sounds like this may be related to social anxiety, no? When I moved to London I would have a ton of trouble speaking to people just because I'd never lived in an English-speaking country before, even though I've been speaking English since I was little. Same as you, I'd have the thoughts in my head but whenever I tried to get them into words I'd stutter, get confused and just make no sense whatsoever, because I was nervous about not being able to speak English properly (oh the irony).
The best/only solution is probably as everyone has said, to just make the sentences in your head first and really plan what you're gonna say so that you're not improvising while you speak.

 

[lars90]

Just added some stuff you should read that too. Yeah Im going to a pychitran soon finally grew a pair of ballz xD and asked my mom. Ill ask him or her about it. The problem is I dont know if my thoughts were always like this or not...

 

[Pagey]

Hmm. Dyou get a lot of social anxiety?
Yeah, you may as well ask your psychiatrist although not sure what he'll be able to do about it (please don't get started on benzos or something, seriously), I think it's probably just something you have to work on really and that'll get easier with time...have you always had trouble expressing your thoughts or is it fairly recent?

 

[lars90]

Hmm. Dyou get a lot of social anxiety?
Yeah, you may as well ask your psychiatrist although not sure what he'll be able to do about it (please don't get started on benzos or something, seriously), I think it's probably just something you have to work on really and that'll get easier with time...have you always had trouble expressing your thoughts or is it fairly recent?

thats what I said before I cant remeber... :/ And yes I have other poblems with social anxiety like if I do something dumb and or if somebody says something mean. I get really quit and depressed for some reson. I just sit still and say nothing! ...

I was thinking about benzos and if I would get them perscribed which I probably wont I would just take them on special and important dates...

 

[Pagey]

Maybe your mom might remember if you ask her?

Please don't go down the benzo route though, it won't resolve anything and it'll just make it all so much worse in the long run...you really don't want to go down that path

 

[lars90]

Maybe your mom might remember if you ask her?

Please don't go down the benzo route though, it won't resolve anything and it'll just make it all so much worse in the long run...you really don't want to go down that path

Ohh phhh ... Iwould never no I could never tell my parents about my problems. Im like a safe. I lock the feelings in side so nobody but me can see and feel them... only if I want them too...

I really took a while until I was able to tell my mom that I didnt feel good and that I wanted to go to a pychitran she doesnt really think I have to but shes still okay with it..

 

[gr33n3y3z]

Think before you speak, I'm not trying to come off rude.

 

[Pagey]

I just meant askng her if she remembers you having some trouble expressing your thoughts when you were little or something, without going into any more detail than that. It might be useful to know if this is only just a recent development.

 

[lars90]

Think before you speak, I'm not trying to come off rude.

read the other cometns above and youll understand why it doesnt always work.

I just meant askng her if she remembers you having some trouble expressing your thoughts when you were little or something, without going into any more detail than that. It might be useful to know if this is only just a recent development.

Ill ask her... to morrow she went to party with the nabors lol ...