No offense intended towards anyone reading this who is experiencing what they believe is FM. But I would recommend that if you want a cure, please be seen by a psych professional inorder to rule out any psych issues or if depression is found, to begin being treated to finally rid yourself of your awful problem.
lol Usually when someone says "No offense" it usually means get ready because I'm about to say something offensive.
I wasn't offended, but FM isn't something I "believe" I have, it's something that three neuros and two rheumys have diagnosed me with. Doctors at Mayo leave no stone unturned when it comes to examination. Each spent at least an hour examining me and I was there for 5 days full of blood work, diagnostic imaging, and even psych evals. I am sure I have it. It's frustrating to be someone who truly does have FM and see that other people are using the name to make excuses for their depression, so I understand where you are coming from. People that have FM get depressed from time to time. Having chronic pain is a buzz kill. You have to work on not being sad, annoyed, and all of that.
I don't want to have
anything wrong with me. I get so tired of being the "sick friend." Though I know my friends don't call me that, I feel like they have to be prepared for my FM. When we go on trips they know I can't do as much, when we make plans they know I could have to cancel last minute... see what I mean? I don't understand why anyone would
want to have something wrong with them. I literally feel like a kid in time-out when I have to stay at home and I know my friends are all doing something. So I can see why "3/4 of diagnosed patients would be found to be depressed."
The best thing for my FM is to follow my physical therapists exercise plan every day. Lyrica is definitely not the cure or even close to full relief. Some days I can tell it helps, but when the pain is bad, Lyrica doesn't even touch it. When I'm really bad I will sneak off and hang out with Mr. Bob Marley.

That helps but I do it sparingly because it can be an expensive habit and I hate being a slave to habit.
People that use FM as a medical excuse make it so hard for people like me, who actually have it, to be taken seriously.

... okay I'm stepping off my soap box. I will stop it now. haha.