This is incredibly weird. I was going to post the SAME EXACT thread yesterday but I was suspended.
And it was gonna have the same exact title something along the lines of appreciating Lolie. At the exact minute I came to post it, I saw the thread right underneath and actually though "did I already post it?", I had to look at the name and saw it was Overdone and was like "wtf you have to be kidding me" lol.
But about a week ago I tried pmin Lolie to tell her somethings, noticed she doesn't take pms which is why I wanted to make the thread for x-mas.
Lolie ALWAYS deduces a post to the single most important thing and addresses that issue. I have seen her read threads before, and pick out concepts that over overwhelmingly important, and even obvious, but it seems she is the only one who notices them.
Lolie ALWAYS has the strictest attitude of professionalism. NEVER gets too emotional about anything and always has something extremely concise and important to say.
Lolie rarely if ever complains about her own problems in threads, or her own experiences, and is always backing up her positions with sound empirical knowledge.
Lolie also comes off extremely educated, and my pm to her was to ask her if she had an LPC or was qualified in helping people with mental disorders. She appears to know things and treat issues in a way that you would expect from a doctor. I will often read her responses after reading a very lengthy post, and it really is amazing how she can look through a wall of irrelevant information and pick out the fundamentally most important thing in that post to address. Her mind seems biologically geared towards solving problems, and she has an uncanning degree of intelligence towards everything she says.
I also want to say her posts are always the most helpful, and if she ever became moderator I'd absolutely consider her the "Queen Bee" lol. She is ALWAYS using practical knowledge, and things people can relate to, and she knows what solutions are dumb and what solutions work. At one point when I first met her I thought she was the female version of me... then I realized I'm not even close to the level shes at. She never breaks character to complain or bitch, always focuses on the person at hand, and always has sound advice to give. Nor does she EVER get frustrated when people don't seem to be improving, and she just keeps on keeping on.
Lolie is also one person noone should hate just because shes incredibly smart. If you pay close enough attention to her posts she really deserves every amount of thanks she gets. And I don't think bluelight could realistically thank her enough for everything shes done. At one point she just use to post and noone ever really made an effort to thank her, but I knew soon enough there'd be some kind of consensus that shes simply the best when it comes to helping people.