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The Balance Between College and Work

Puntr

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Los Angeles
Let me start off by saying that if this thread is in the wrong forum, mods, feel free to move it to the appropriate one.

I feel the need to vent some of my academic and work-related frustrations. Feel free to provide input, but this is mainly to get things off my chest.

I graduated high school in 2008 and began attending a local community college that same fall. At the same time, I became employed with my first job for my city's Parks & Recreation department. Now, unlike all my other friends who come from well-off financial families, I come from a low-middle class family. Up until the economy started getting really bad, my mom was able to handle the bills alright on her own. Once things started getting bad financially, I had to start helping pay bills and expenses around the house (including my own).

Generally speaking, to get an Associate's degree it takes two years. In that sense, this upcoming fall should be my last semester, however, at this point in time, I barely have 20 units out of the 60 I need to transfer. As I mentioned earlier, all my friends are well-off financially, and they're all unemployed. I, on the other hand, am in a situation where I need my job just to maintain not only myself but my household. It bothers me so much seeing people that graduated in my high school class already pretty much done with their two-year degree, and here I am, only 1/3 of the way there... I sometimes wish I was able to fully dedicate myself to school and not have to worry about work, but that's not the case.

To make things worse, this afternoon I found out I was academically suspended... I had already applied and registered at another community college in the area and plan on attending there for fall and winter until I can re-apply to my first college. This news just kind of slapped me in the face hard and made me assess my situation overall and I sort of sank into this minor depression about my schoolwork, which led me to making this post. I guess there's really no other solution but to just take it bit by bit, and just accept the fact that my A.A. degree will take longer than I had originally hoped for.

Again, this was just a vent, but maybe others here have experienced similar situations and can chime in.

-Puntr
 
Maybe you can retake some at a later time? I fucked my first year, but they were sympathetic to allow be back to retake the first year again (not in nursing though).
 
How many hours are you working? What % course load are you taking? Which program? How many hours of homework are you expected to do a night? Do your work and school schedules conflict? If you moved away from home, would your mother be financially independent?
 
It is difficult that balance. I struggle to, I haven't much of a life away from uni at the moment as I'm working a career job that coincides with my degree. 50-60 hrs work at work + 3 night classes a week is painful. I get home Friday night and I last a couple of hours before falling asleep, then I spend the weekend studying & recuperating for the following week.
Fortunately for me, work allows me flexibility in exam time to come and go as necessary providing I've got everything under control in the office.

Sometimes you just have bite your lip & tough it out.
 
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