Fjones, Ive read thru pretty much this whole thread, and I can see shit from all sides a little bit. The one thing you might want to work on is your tone. You might not realize it, but you come off as bein very douchey in this thread. I aint saying you ARE one. I think you are prolly a pretty cool guy.
But from your attitude and the way you respond to people on here, I hate to say it but you are undermining yourself and your arguements by posting in such a confrontational way. You might think you are just bein firm and forceful, but the reason so many people are gettin turned off from this discussion is becuz you just wont let shit go. We all like to debate sometimes. Shit, Im a heroin addict and my mother knows it. Its caused her endless pain and suffering, yet for some reason not too long ago I felt the need to debate with her about why heroin should be legalized.
DICK MOVE on my part!
I just say that to point out to you that you aint the only person that enjoys a good debate , and the fact that you are debating it dont necessarily mean you are personally invested in that shit. BUT wat Ive found over time is that when you got the desire to KEEP GOING with the debate, long after evevryone else is like dude, fuck it, you can have it, cuz i am just too tired of your shit to keep doing this - It usually means that whether or not you realize it, you are catching feelings about it. Its ok, it happens to everyone sometimes. Or maybe you just realllllly get into your typing, and you dont care at all, and totally have no interest in this wat so ever and are just posting for the hell of a logical exercise. But it seems like you are puttin alot of energy into this, like a dog that just keeps shaking watever deaad thing is in its mouth and wont let go of it.
So just let go a little bit dude. The people of BL aint a mass of uneducated logic-lacking idiots. Its just that when you approach this topic with the extreme attitude you take, and get all worked up over it, people are less likely to WANT to spend their time debatin with you and instead are just like...Wat the fucks his problem?
You are sayin that you make effort to stay away from personal attacks, etc, and thats great, logically your arguments are prolly sound, I really cant say cuz i never took no classes about that. But it aint always just about cold logic. its also about how you interact with people and how you treat people. Comin on here and having a argument that has no logical flaws in it is cool n all, but who the hell wants to debate that with a dude thats so self righteous and abrasive? It takes the fun out of it when you take this shit so damn serious. I think you would have a lot more people in here posting if you changed your approach a lil bit, becuz many ppl are put off by the tone u showing. I aint tryna say much more and get a grade-A rant against me courtesy of you lol. But I just wanted to post that as a totally uninterested observer who really dont give a shit about either side of it and got no affiliation with any of the posters in this thread, i think you could cool it out a lil bit and it might be beneficial to your case.



I just say that to point out to you that you aint the only person that enjoys a good debate , and the fact that you are debating it dont necessarily mean you are personally invested in that shit. BUT wat Ive found over time is that when you got the desire to KEEP GOING with the debate, long after evevryone else is like dude, fuck it, you can have it, cuz i am just too tired of your shit to keep doing this - It usually means that whether or not you realize it, you are catching feelings about it. Its ok, it happens to everyone sometimes. Or maybe you just realllllly get into your typing, and you dont care at all, and totally have no interest in this wat so ever and are just posting for the hell of a logical exercise. But it seems like you are puttin alot of energy into this, like a dog that just keeps shaking watever deaad thing is in its mouth and wont let go of it.
So just let go a little bit dude. The people of BL aint a mass of uneducated logic-lacking idiots. Its just that when you approach this topic with the extreme attitude you take, and get all worked up over it, people are less likely to WANT to spend their time debatin with you and instead are just like...Wat the fucks his problem?
You are sayin that you make effort to stay away from personal attacks, etc, and thats great, logically your arguments are prolly sound, I really cant say cuz i never took no classes about that. But it aint always just about cold logic. its also about how you interact with people and how you treat people. Comin on here and having a argument that has no logical flaws in it is cool n all, but who the hell wants to debate that with a dude thats so self righteous and abrasive? It takes the fun out of it when you take this shit so damn serious. I think you would have a lot more people in here posting if you changed your approach a lil bit, becuz many ppl are put off by the tone u showing. I aint tryna say much more and get a grade-A rant against me courtesy of you lol. But I just wanted to post that as a totally uninterested observer who really dont give a shit about either side of it and got no affiliation with any of the posters in this thread, i think you could cool it out a lil bit and it might be beneficial to your case.
