laCster
Bluelighter
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i have been through 3 treatment centers now,: 2 inpatient and 1outpatient and i am still having difficulty staying sober because i really dont want this for myself. the reason why i went to through all of those was becaused i faced being financially dropped by my parents. yhey were basically paying for almost everything i need - school, food, housing ect.. until they found out i was doing harder drugs than marijuana such as oxycodone and heroin. now they stopped paying for my university and so i withdrew from school
the most recent rehab i am going through is intensive outpatient program which i have been going to for almost 3 months. throughout my time, i only had 5-6days sober max and i have been constantly been getting honest about getting high, saying i will stay sober, and then going against my word and getting high. now i am on my last chance at this rehab place because i have gotten high so many times and if i am kicked out then i will completely cut off from my parents - no food, no house, no nothing.
right now, i really dont want to be sober, or i dont even know what i want to do. this whole time i have been practically forced to get sober and it hasnt gotten me shit, and im confused and dont know what the fuck to do.
my two options are to go into a halfway house supported by my outpatient program, or my parents are offering to put some down payments into an appartment, pay the first month, and leave me on my own to support myself. with this option, i would have the oppurtunity to still get high and live my own life, but with the halfway house i would have to be sober which i don t know how likely that is. the halfway house would be for 3months and then i would leave and continue to go to outpatient.
i had plans to finish college and get my PharmD at my state university but at this moment it seems like my dreams are crumbling down. i am really scared and dont know what to do right now i am leaning towards getting my own place, getting high while trying to save up enough money and eventually go to school, but i dont know.
i guess i am just looking for some answers or input on what do you guys thnk i should do..
the most recent rehab i am going through is intensive outpatient program which i have been going to for almost 3 months. throughout my time, i only had 5-6days sober max and i have been constantly been getting honest about getting high, saying i will stay sober, and then going against my word and getting high. now i am on my last chance at this rehab place because i have gotten high so many times and if i am kicked out then i will completely cut off from my parents - no food, no house, no nothing.
right now, i really dont want to be sober, or i dont even know what i want to do. this whole time i have been practically forced to get sober and it hasnt gotten me shit, and im confused and dont know what the fuck to do.
my two options are to go into a halfway house supported by my outpatient program, or my parents are offering to put some down payments into an appartment, pay the first month, and leave me on my own to support myself. with this option, i would have the oppurtunity to still get high and live my own life, but with the halfway house i would have to be sober which i don t know how likely that is. the halfway house would be for 3months and then i would leave and continue to go to outpatient.
i had plans to finish college and get my PharmD at my state university but at this moment it seems like my dreams are crumbling down. i am really scared and dont know what to do right now i am leaning towards getting my own place, getting high while trying to save up enough money and eventually go to school, but i dont know.
i guess i am just looking for some answers or input on what do you guys thnk i should do..