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DXM~ Really hope you stay strong for yourself if you get through this heartbreak you will be all the stronger after it. Thats not some Cliche, went through something similar myself at 17 and never felt that pain as intensely again, perhaps the first blow is always the most painful. Totally agree that it can be more difficult at 17 than later in life because it can be more raw. Stick with the guys in here, their on your side and are rooting for you! Take care of yourself!;)
 
Captain.Heroin said:
Why choose one or the other? You can have a quality relationship with a girl who also likes to get high.
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CHECKMATE

i would liek to point this out..
You two are not even breaking up this is a "take me back" situation
this is your chance to show who wears the pants
im dead serious bro
tell her "listen, i love you, but im not going to stop smoking weed for you, if you LOVED me that much, u wouldnt care that i got high, and neither would your parents"

if she doesnt abide then fuck it bro, there are millions of fish in the sea (hotter ones too!!!)

Thats why i stay single, no old lady to cause drama, stress me out, tell me what i can and cant do..its the ultimate freedom
 
DeMiZe-420- said:
CHECKMATE

Thats why i stay single, no old lady to cause drama, stress me out, tell me what i can and cant do..its the ultimate freedom
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Your likely at the age where that could very well be.

although as the twenties have come and gone and the thirties start flying by, the quote becomes a lonely man's rationalization on the benefits of being alone. it can also apply to women by swapping old lady with old man, mommas boy etc.
 
i went through a few relationships where i felt like this, after the fact.
dxm made relationships weird and seemed larger then life (maybe not) when i was about you're same age haha
im getting used to staying single lately.
 
DXMkid420 said:
this girl is soo damn confusing. lastnight she texts me she wants me back after we have been fighting nd all this stupid shit. UGH!!!
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Don't get sucked into her drama. Ultimately, her parents are pulling the strings. Sure she misses you just like you miss her. But this relationship is doomed to fail as long as she's under her parent's roof. In my opinion Bobbie is being forced to say goodbye and at your age, this will pass quickly. I know it's not what you want to hear but there's no use hanging onto false hope.
 
DXMkid420 said:
thanks man, iv just been trying to get some shit figured out, its nice to be back though. i never thought anyone would miss me, normally everyone says they hate me on here
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It would be a shame to see you go, it would have a negative impact on my day even if it was not part of your intentions, which are probably to mute the suffering you have felt stream through you if you have been thinking of suicide. Feels bad man!

It would be a shame to see somebody so high up on the levels of existence in this universe end themselves, whether ultimately due to self choices or judgments placed by society.
 
you seem young..im not trying to be an asshole..but there are so many more life lessons you are going to learn...enjoy the tree while you can....there is a difference between smoking and being a pothead...and girls are girls..it sounds shitty and cliche...but there are many fish in the sea and trust from experience even if shit gets back to normal there will always be the awkwardness..and eventually it will always be the elephant in the room
 
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