Anyways, here's some good news I have to share:
I've been seeing someone for a while and seeing them is helping me get over a lot of past trauma around sex as well as some commitment issues stemming from an emotionally abusive relationship I was in a couple years ago.
I struggled with performance anxiety with most of my past partners and thus was never able to enjoy sex or even finish (which is obviously a bit unusual for a cis male) as a result.
This is honestly the first partner I've been with where I am genuinely able to enjoy sex.
I get the feeling that they want to get into a relationship, so I'm going to ask them next time I see them.