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Slender girls vs. Curvy Girls? MERGED. [mild work warning]

hahaha I meant more about chicks who do starve themselves more so which is what most ppl would have interpreted as. I just think FairyNymph just thinks I am a tool which is granted. And yes I know there are skinny chicks who eat even more than me (and I'm a bloody well fed wog). So yeah...Strawberry Lovemuffin got the correct notion while FairyNymph is just a silly nit picker who prolly needs to take a nice big dose of diazapam in the mornings.

Peace Out
 
I think im finally comming to accept the fact that I am of Italian heritage and I will alway be curvy. I do so much excersize and eat semi normally yet cannot be skinny no matter how hard I try. Ive given up. I guess accepting my fat arse and stomach is only solance I have in the world.
 
oh yeah...fairnynymph...whatever the fuck. And yes I know I spelled diazepam wrong...so sue me. And u just proved my point...nit picker nit picker nit picker *blows a rasberry*
 
I spend a fair amount of time with my man who is always talking about how he wants to look like this and that.. well we were in the club one night and I pointed to this skinny (compared to me) girl who happened to be like oh.. 5'5, thin, didn't really have any breasts and basically a straight figure, which I thought was just perfect and beautiful.. I say to him whilst pointing to her.. THAT, that is what I want to look like.. and instead of hearing "No way.. you're beautiful." I hear "No, you'll never be that way, you're body's not made for that build." which.. is true since I'm pure curves, but damn. lol Let a girl dream!
 
^ Find a pic of John Holmes (well more to the point, his dick) and repeat what he said to you, as an exercise in showing him to think and consider feelings before speaking...
 
SFF, I personally would prefer that type of honesty. Think about it, so many women want their men to lie to them, telling them that they look slender when they don't (not that there is any problem inherently with being more curvy). Your man didn't say this chick's body type was better, or that he would want you to look like her.

Trust me I would be a little irritated at first but I would then come to realize that I actually appreciate the honesty.And yes, it was very tactless...but what do you expect from most men? (sorry guys!)
 
I was talking about my breasts with my current, saying that I wouldn't object if they were bigger, and he complimented the shape, saying that 'some people' (note: not him) would consider that size really nice. And some other time we were talking about big breasts and he said something to the effect of 'yea sure it would be nice if yours were a bit bigger even though theyre nice as they are'. Lol. I didn't really mind though, Im not too self-conscious about them, although it would have hurt a bit if boob size had been a bigger issue for me (no pun intended)

And at least when a guy is honest about what he thinks about your body (whether the truth is non-flattering or just half-flattering)... you *know* that when he compliments you it is genuine.
 
I would definitely take a fattie over a skinny girl, and I LOVE curves on women. I love nice thick asses and nice firm tits to go with; but I don't like rolls of fat. That turns me off
 
Plus I don't work out at all and I'm definitely not skinny, so I guess I pretty much prefer a woman that is equall to me. Doesn't over eat, doesn't exercise, and is not to worried about how they look, just doesn't wanna be really out of shape. I got a small lil beer gut, and I wouldn't mind a gf that is like me. And when I say rolls I mean OBESE.
 
I'm kind of jumping in on this one, but I like a nice toned girl, with a little bit of meat/muscle on her. I can stand all these flabby scrappy looking girls everyone keeps tell me is hot. I like those shapes, and they have to be in shape for me. A little pudge is ok, but not a lot.
 
captainballs said:
It depends: slender = girlfriend
curvy = fuck buddy

slender with a fat ass = wife 8(

This one hit home only because I've attracted the wrong kind of guys because of my naturally cartoon like curves... and it seems to be true.. a curvy girl reminds guys of the sluts in pornos and a skinny girl is the girl next door that looks cute (in) her clothes...
 
hmm .... this is a hard one - im slender with curves - even when i used to diet i would keep my hourglass shape - but it would be a bony hourglass shape which since i have got older have realised is not hot. my friend has the best curves - real hourglass ... i love whacking her on the bum and using her bum as a pillow .... i thinks she's come to accept her bum as it is .... and when she gets criticism on it i just pull part her criticisder saying what right do they have to comment on something that is surely an assett ... no pun intended - though maybe i spelt it wrong haha

my boyfriend is naturally slim - like me actually. we both eat lots and lots though. Actually, my boy goes gaga when i do have curves - my body weight varies and fluctuates slightly and personally i would prefer having a little tummy and having bigger boobs.
 
i love having a curvy body. of course theres a LOT i'd change about it.. but im pretty well proportioned. i have curves where they should be. :D
 
I can't stand girls that are too skinny. I like girls that are kinda 'thick' but not fat. It's hard to explain. I don't like girls with fat tummys or wide hips, but I really like a nice ass and big breasts. I definitely dig the hourglass figure--the hourglass figure is ideal.
 
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