Mental Health Sleeping Problems

llama112

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I've had sleeping problems (I guess insomnia) my whole life. Two hours before I am supposed to go to sleep, I start to get anxiety. Half the time I cry. I've even thrown up because of it a couple times. During the week, I go to bed at 9 PM. Yes, that's right. I wake up at 6 AM. If I got to sleep right away, that would give me nine hours of sleep, yet I'm usually anywhere between 8 hrs (on a good night) or 5 or 6 (on bad nights). I toss and turn all night.

I find that it helps when I take melatonin. I usually go to bed and if I don't "feel tired" after an hour, I take melatonin. That is most nights I guess. Trying not for every day lol. Xanax helps me a lot but that's not a good habit to get into.

The thing is, I don't know what I'm scared of. There is nothing bad about sleep!

I generally work 10 hours a day and I am average active during the day? I don't go to the gym but I walk a LOT and I hoop (hula hoop). I don't have a ton of time to work out anyway, I do what I can. My job is high stress but my life is generally high stress.

I have severe anxiety about everything. But the sleeping part really take a toll on my life. Well general anxiety does too I guess.

Anyone know anything other than melatonin that could help? I've tried dipenhydromine (sp?) but that's a once a week type thing. Any other supplements that could be suggested? Anything is worth a try, I'd say!

(Or any other ways to get rid of this sleep anxiety)
 
Have you ever tried guided meditation podcasts? I find that anxiety is the worst when there is nothing to distract me from my own looping thought-habits. That is why trying to go to sleep for an anxious person is such a hard time--there is nothing there to distract you from your own incessant worry. But a guided meditation works far beyond helping you sleep--it actually trains your mind over time to self-nurture, to calm itself down. I like Tara Brach but there are many others--check out youtube to get names and then find someone that utilizes mindfulness (detaching from your thoughts).
 
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