ChipTrippyFox
Bluelighter
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- Dec 25, 2013
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I'm currently in a failed relationship which I want to leave (there is more to this story involving how I was abused for years but it is kinda off topic; perhaps if anyone shows interest I will make a new thread about it)
I recently returned to work after being on medical leave to try and get my depression under control. I didn't get enough time off but I am glad I returned to work.. cause I met the most amazing girl.
I like everything about her. She is smart, funny, philosophical and articulate. Not to mention drop dead gorgeous! She totally clicks with my personality in a way no one ever has before.. especially not so quickly. I'm an acquired taste for most girls, they find me weird. She loves my personality.
It didn't take me long to become interested in her and now I think about her every day.
About a week after I met her (3 or 4 months ago) I found out that she had just started a new relationship, I am not sure how serious they are.. She claims to like him but honestly she doesn't talk about him a whole lot. Not to mention he has been away doing some sort of army training out of town. (His secondary job. His primary is by chance the same place that me and this girl also work. Hooray, office romance stuff)
I can understand multiple different reasons why it would be inappropriate to express my interest in her.. but it is burning me up inside to hold it in! I am willing to accept the fact that she could very well not want me that way. (even though I am getting some signals from her that make me think I have a chance) I am just wondering to myself.. If I DO have any chance.. Should I try to take it ASAP before it's too late..?
I recently returned to work after being on medical leave to try and get my depression under control. I didn't get enough time off but I am glad I returned to work.. cause I met the most amazing girl.
I like everything about her. She is smart, funny, philosophical and articulate. Not to mention drop dead gorgeous! She totally clicks with my personality in a way no one ever has before.. especially not so quickly. I'm an acquired taste for most girls, they find me weird. She loves my personality.
It didn't take me long to become interested in her and now I think about her every day.
About a week after I met her (3 or 4 months ago) I found out that she had just started a new relationship, I am not sure how serious they are.. She claims to like him but honestly she doesn't talk about him a whole lot. Not to mention he has been away doing some sort of army training out of town. (His secondary job. His primary is by chance the same place that me and this girl also work. Hooray, office romance stuff)
I can understand multiple different reasons why it would be inappropriate to express my interest in her.. but it is burning me up inside to hold it in! I am willing to accept the fact that she could very well not want me that way. (even though I am getting some signals from her that make me think I have a chance) I am just wondering to myself.. If I DO have any chance.. Should I try to take it ASAP before it's too late..?