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Should I fulfil his fantasy?

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My boyfriend said he had a thing for leather catsuits and he could see me in one, so I bought a faux-leather one on the internet a while ago and told him I had a surprise he'd have to wait for (was going to wear it for him after I'd got my coil inserted). Recently, he asked about the 'present' I'd got him, and when I said it wasn't a 'thing', he seemed really disappointed, like he'd built it up :S Now I feel really embarrassed that it'd be an anticlimax or that I'd look ridiculous in it and I no longer feel confident about wearing it. But he's been waiting to find out for so long I can't just...not? can I? I feel so un-sexy thinking about this.
 
He's gonna love it. He'd likely never expect it, and I'm almost certain it'll be more than he hoped for. At least, that's how I'd feel.
 
Mentioning to you that he likes something is a roundabout way of asking you to do/wear it. Why else would he mention if but to try and plant a seed in your head?
You didn't get him a XBOX game or whatever it is that he thought the "thing" was. Don't worry about it.
You're his gf, so he already likes/lusts after you. He has a thing for cat suits...... What's not to be confident about? Go for it.
 
just based on what you said, there's no reason why you shouldnt do it.
 
Heck yes, he will probably be super stoked...he probably never even though about one of his fantasies being fulfilled...that is WAY better than some silly thing!
 
He would love it.
My boyfriend loves me in outfits that I don't think I look good in. Who knows why. Just go for it :)
 
Of course you should. Enough hesitation, get into that cat suit and go have sex.
 
You went through the trouble... Just accept nothing less than a positive mindset for yourself, try to instill apprehension (right word?) in him, and do it. You went through the trouble. Letting it die just sounds depressing. At the very least... wake him up in the middle of the night with it on... make him jump. Haha.
 
You can't put on something like that and act shy or embarrassed, that would be a non starter.

If you're gonna wear it you have to own it. I'd tell him when his surprise is going to be so he can look forward to it all day. Sexting him hints all day would help.Then get him to come in and sit down, unseen, and you walk in from another room. Lap dance optional, music will help, but standing and flaunting it so he can admire you before ravaging him a must.

A few drinks may help give you the dutch courage you may need, but if you walk the walk he'll talk the talk :)

edit - killer heels too, make up, hair - the lot. Spend ages getting ready & you'll find yourself looking forward to it too :)
 
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badandwicked said:
You can't put on something like that and act shy or embarrassed, that would be a non starter.

If you're gonna wear it you have to own it. I'd tell him when his surprise is going to be so he can look forward to it all day. Sexting him hints all day would help.Then get him to come in and sit down, unseen, and you walk in from another room. Lap dance optional, music will help, but standing and flaunting it so he can admire you before ravaging him a must.

A few drinks may help give you the dutch courage you may need, but if you walk the walk he'll talk the talk :)

edit - killer heels too, make up, hair - the lot. Spend ages getting ready & you'll find yourself looking forward to it too :)
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^QFT

Have you tried it on yet? Wear it when he's not home to get used to the look and feeling of it (some catsuits can be constricting).

The idea of sextexting and getting him riled up is great. Do you live together? If not invite him over for dinner and make it a super romantic night for the both of you.
 
What 23 said:
You went through the trouble... Just accept nothing less than a positive mindset for yourself, try to instill apprehension (right word?) in him, and do it. You went through the trouble. Letting it die just sounds depressing. At the very least... wake him up in the middle of the night with it on... make him jump. Haha.
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^^^This post.
 
Stop over thinking it.

Get yourself a bottle of wine, chuck on some leather/latex porn, get excited and then get right into it. Use a vibrator a bit beforehand if you have one. You have a much better chance of being good at this if you also enjoy the fantasy yourself.

And it won't be an anticlimax. It doesn't matter how you act, what you do specifically, or even how you look really - as long as you're enthusiastic and it's somewhat genuine then your boyfriend will be wanking over this for weeks.

Enjoy
 
badandwicked said:
You can't put on something like that and act shy or embarrassed, that would be a non starter.

If you're gonna wear it you have to own it. I'd tell him when his surprise is going to be so he can look forward to it all day. Sexting him hints all day would help.Then get him to come in and sit down, unseen, and you walk in from another room. Lap dance optional, music will help, but standing and flaunting it so he can admire you before ravaging him a must.

A few drinks may help give you the dutch courage you may need, but if you walk the walk he'll talk the talk :)

edit - killer heels too, make up, hair - the lot. Spend ages getting ready & you'll find yourself looking forward to it too :)
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QFT. ^

You already practically did everything-- follow through girl!!
 
badandwicked said:
You can't put on something like that and act shy or embarrassed, that would be a non starter.

If you're gonna wear it you have to own it. I'd tell him when his surprise is going to be so he can look forward to it all day. Sexting him hints all day would help.Then get him to come in and sit down, unseen, and you walk in from another room. Lap dance optional, music will help, but standing and flaunting it so he can admire you before ravaging him a must.

A few drinks may help give you the dutch courage you may need, but if you walk the walk he'll talk the talk :)

edit - killer heels too, make up, hair - the lot. Spend ages getting ready & you'll find yourself looking forward to it too :)
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Definitely. Judging by my own experience it's extremely unlikely (/impossible) that your boyfriend will be thinking about anything other than how great you look once you try the suit on, no matter how you may actually feel about it. BUt, as B&W said, you also have to act 200% confident. Acting confident also usually creates confidence, and once you see how well he's reacting to it I'm sure all the nervousness will disappear. Just have fun :)
 
get a few drinks in you and surprise him with it. i think you will be pleasantly surprised at how much he is going to enjoy it
 
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