^You go girl
BF got a job after having a terrible time looking what seemed like endlessly--application after application. It was getting pretty desperate. I was getting a lot of hours, basically too many it felt like. We don't have many bills so I wanted to have maybe 25-30;35hrs at the most. I was getting 40 hours every week, it was so tiring especially night shift, but it was keeping us afloat. We hoped that when he got another job we would each work around 30 hours a piece and have some decent leisure time to ourselves to enjoy our family and our house and other things in our life.
I was getting an overload of hours in the beginning and it stayed steady in the beginning for 3 months and then it started to dwindle to being 4 days a week, to being 3 days a week (yikes that's more days off than on), and then finally the schedule came out yesterday for me and I saw it and I had 2 days. Owning a house, and having utilities, taxes, insurances of several kind, credit card payments, 4 pets to be responsible for... It was terrifying 2 days wasn't going to cut it and I could survive maybe a month with those hours before breaking. I would have to shamefully call my parents and ask for help.
But I was stuck working 40 hours and he was still unwillingly unemployed (and he did try, every day). But Yesterday evening we got a break and he now has a part time job (just what we want!). I am so happy, and now I can finally enjoy my lowered hours.

This is so wonderful I am so happy!