I hear Rutgers is a fun school, ive visited the campuses a few times and my straight edged conservative douchebag asian friends go there complaining about the party life. The housing is a little bleh. I go to Ramapo which isnt very party hardy. Im thinkin about either transfering there or somewhere in the city or boston.
If you're going to party there be careful and use a lot of protection. I think I've read a few articles stating that Rutgers is notorious for STD infections, and it certainly has a local reputation for it.
I have many friends who graduated from there and some who are attending now. If you don't mind being in classes with hundreds of people and you do not want to get that intensive student-professor relationship, want to hardly ever attend your courses and still coast by, Rutgers is probably for you. If you put the work in it's a great school, but most of the people I know prefer smaller courses and more intensive focus.