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Roommates Duty to Tell Me He's Gay?

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disclaimer: i have nothing against gay people at all. more power to them.

now, do you think that if you were moving in with him/her that they should disclose that they are gay? what about throwing in some factors like: if it was just you two living in the apt? what if you were sharing a room? or if there were 4 people living in a house?

shouldn't i have a right to know about the person i am going to be living with?
 
Should he tell you he's straight? Should he tell you he only likes women of other races? Why do you think he should share his personal preferences? If it's due to your feelings of discomfort, then you should specify in your ad or interview process you are looking for straight men only, otherwise IMO it isn't pertinent information
 
^This.

If he was like "BRO I'M STRAIGHT" out of the blue, I'd think he was overcompensating. You say that "I have nothing against gay people", but the fact that you need to ask sexual orientation kinda suggests the opposite. You gonna give em a drug test? Ask about their religion? Ask WHO IS YOUR DADDY AND WHAT DOES HE DO?

If it's an issue, specify in the ad, so it's a moot point
 
I agree with junglejuice, the fact that there is concern as to whether or roommate is gay or not says a lot. I don't see what difference it makes. I personally don't think it's any of your business. If he's respectful and pays what he is supposed to on time then that is what is important.
 
Why would it matter to YOU if your roommate was gay? Even if someone was sharing a room with me, I don't think that he/she would need to tell me that he/she is gay. If I shared a room with someone, I would expect her to let me know if she was having company (ex. having a boyfriend/girlfriend or hookup over), her sexual orientation would not matter.
 
you got a right to know if they're a voilent, thieving sociapath. Too bad the world doesn't work that way.
You're only sharing an apartment not bodily orifices, unless you got the worst lease in the world
And if you're not a homophobe, what do u care? ''The more power to them''...especially when they seduce you
 
Let me phrase it differently than some others have. If your roommate is a gay male and he brings home a boyfriend to your shared room, and they are cuddling and being close, is that going to bother you? If yes, then you have a problem with gay people, especially if you imagine your straight roommate bringing home his girlfriend and having less of a problem with it. It would be different if the issue was PDA then the orientation wouldn't matter, but it's their home too right?

If you need a roommate then it means you can't afford your own place, which means you should just deal with it. I've had to live with roommates who were VERY different from me in order to stay afloat. Beggars can't be choosers.
 
^indeed.

even if i were to share a room with someone, it would make no difference to the awkwardness if he were fucking a chick or a dude.
 
Absolutely not, their sexuality is none of your business, and it's strange that you think it is.
 
if you are sharing a room with someone you must be in a bad financial place in which case take what you can get. if however you are renting out a room to someone and you think you have a right to know about their sex life then no, you dont.

if you are sharing the room then you may have to put up with things you dont like. the gay sex should be worrying you less than the thieving concerns but if it bothers you that much specify in the ad
 
No I don't think he's got any sort of duty or obligation to tell you, at all. Don't flatter yourself, it's not cuz he's gay that he's going to be hitting on you :)

Who he sleeps with is his business until he decides whether or not to tell you.
 
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