pretend something witty, please

I didn't want this to be a "bitch fest" every time I get on here, even though it seems to be working out that way so far.
My first reasons for joining this site were to try and help others or at least be an ear for someone, anyone. I was looking for a place that I could be I guess my better self.

I have a lot of good things going in my life right now. As I damn well know wit the good normally the bad tends to follow, granted to different levels. When I can take a step back and look at my life I know that I have a whole lot to be grateful for. I am for getting some pretty big parts of my life back together.

Still I'm having a hard time dealing with losing my husband, my daughter (at once no less), friends and a part of myself. Slowly I am collecting the pieces and looking for some fucking glue.

 

I suck!

 

I wouldn't say so. Piecing your life together after such trauma is no easy feat. You've got to cut yourself a bit of slack.

Oh, and bitch away. That's a good part of why Blogs is here!

 

Thanks Dave. Nights are the hardest for me so all of the built up shit of the day tends to spill out.

 

Hi empty remains, I joined BL, for a similar reason, maybe to learn and hopefully listen and help others something I do on a daily basis and get paid for, but the black hole and darkness I seem to have fallen into recently suppresses the real me and those around me tell me I’ve lost that spark, thanks.
I guess what keeps me going is knowing what I had and the fond, glorious memories I still hold in my heart.
Hey bitching is good maybe we could start a blog where we can just bitch as much as we like, there you go now you’ve made me smile, thank you

 

I'm glad to hear I was able to make someone smile.

A "Bitch Blog" would prolly do us all some good.

I know what you mean about holding close the memories. Some nights, minutes, seconds it's hard to hold myself together. Times passing and the moments where it hurt to much to even blink are fewer and farther between now.

 

Time and talking are great healers, the pain and loss will always be there but I guess we just learn to cope better.

Right I have to go Alfie (my dog) is chewing the computer cable, nice talking to you hopefully chat again soon, pm me if you like, you take care now.

A ‘Bitch Blog’ I’m liking the sound of that

 

er-- evenings are the worst for me too. I find that it helps to be as physically tired as possible, so that I pass out quickly. It works better some days than others, but in general it works well enough that I can at least get a few decent nights' sleep a week.

 

Hi empty remains. I use my blog mostly for bitching too. When I worry about offending anyone in it, I try to remember to preface the entry with a "rant warning" and put it in nsfw tags.
Also, I agree with you on bluelight being a place to learn. People from different backgrounds bring unique perspectives and experience into some of the thread conversations.