PLEASE HELP a Newbie

[J_Tee]

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hi, i just turned 18. havent ever been to clubs much, but i do like the experience and would go more when time allows.
anyway, here is a gripe, a question, that most of my friends wont tell me straightforwardly. call me stupid/dumb/ wateva.... everyone still has to start at one place right?
Anyway, when close/dirty dancing with a girl, is it ok if the 2 "private parts" of the persons suppose to rub together? or be close together? or is it up to the dancers?
i know its a stupid question but hey, i gotta start somewhere. most of my other clubbing q's have been answered already.
THANKS Y'ALL

 

[sunni]

Hi there, J_Tee. I could be such a bitch here - the opportunities are limitless - but i'm in a really good mood so i'm going to be as nice about this as & as helpful as possible just in case you are being serious. (If you are just trying to be a smartarse, i must say you are very convincing.)
Firstly, that situation that you are talking about would never arise in the places most of the people around here would go. It's just not part of the 'scene' & anyway, the music doesn't really allow for it - it's kind of difficult to lose it on the dancefloor with some horny wanker hanging off you.
So, we'll have to assume you're talking about a club that won't let you in with runners & plays songs like 'pony' by whoever it was - a song perfect for the activity you are asking about.
Finally, to answer your question, the only way your going to know if a particular chickie (i'm assuming you're a guy because i can't imagine a girl ever asking that question) wants to dry fuck you on the dancefloor, is to try it. If she slaps you & runs away, you know she doesn't. If she grinds you back, you're in.
Have fun pony.
PS Please help keep Australia tidy by deleting this thread from the drug discussion forum.
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to the crazy person, the normal one is insane
[This message has been edited by sunni (edited 15 October 2000).]

 

[Eagleyes]

J_Tee, you're a dickhead!
Don't take offense to that, it's just my opinion. You may be a great guy, it's just that i think you're a dickhead!

 

[**AJ**]

ummmm, J_Tee I would have to say you seem to have a *fundamental misunderstanding* about what goes on in the sort of clubs we here at BL frequent, ie.... not dirty dancing.... if I were u i'd go to a club (NOT one of those rnb club thingies full of sleazy greased up nymphomaniac guys from penrith) with your clubbing friends and check out what goes on for yourself

it's funny how ppl not in the "club scene" can see no other reason to go clubbing other than "picking up"... how about "dancing my arse off!!!"??

 

[dr rico yi]

Nah fully eh bro? thats the kind of stuff i fully get up to down at Rogues every weekend. makes for a mad vibe fully eh? Oi sluts! Thats my favourite pick up line.
But seriously. Ritual played "Pony" by Ginuwine downside home in the dnb room not long ago. Funniest thing that happened all night. Especially when watching the confused faces who hadnt realised it was a joke.
Kinda like this thread.
Fully eh.

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"No sane man will dance" - Cicero (106-43 BC)

 

[Shadow]

aaand that's why i will never ever go to a club (the types where ppl just stand around, try to look good n to pick up)!!!pppfffttt..
guess this doesn't really answer ur question, but i don't think wut u asked is even worth answering!!!
*peace*

 

[sunni]

Ginuwine! Thanks. dr rico yi, i don't how i could have forgotten his/their name.
As for 'Oi sluts!' - i think you're definately on a winner with that one, i know it would work on me.
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to the crazy person, the normal one is insane

 

[haste]

ohhh now you've gone and ruffled Eagleyes's feathers

*offers eagleyes a bourbon and coke*

All I can say is you have alot to learn about the scene that BL's attend. Mind you last night at Earthdance (melbourne) there was one female patron with suspenders and a g-string - not that I noticed - stop laughing TiggerChic

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Careful with that axe Eugene....

 

[Tarsarlan]

Mental note: Remember to shout out "Oi sluts!" Next time sunni is around...

But seriously, don't go to "rave" type clubs expecting that kind of thing J_Tee, because it just ain't gonna happen. I certainly wouldn't get that close to someone, I mean how can ya dance right next to someone... certainly can't dance to anything with more than 120 bpm that way, and if they're playing music any slower then I don't wanna be there...

 

[SupaspeeD]

Hahahaaaaa... this thread reminds me of something a mate of mine overheard at a dodgy pub up the sunny coast here in lovely QLD.
A guy won a bartab and was given the mic to say thanks, and he yells through the mic, "Wooohooo!! Bitches, get your cunts out!!"
What a charmer!! sorry to offend with that, but i crack up just thinking about it.

SD

 

[Tantras]

Well heres an idea, go out and enjoy YOURSELF and not worry about that. I dont think your really gonna pick up in a rav club - that is of course unless your off ya head and talking with a girl and all of a sudden you think your at one with each other, spiritually, mentally etc etc etc. That kinda wears off tho.

 

[sweet leaf]

Hey ppl , first of all , the dude is just ASKING...like he said , he's only JUST turned 18 , "haven't ever been to clubs much", registered today and has had 2 posts... Not an experienced person really in what goes on at BL..He (guessing here) hasn't been to many good clubs , and like he said , he's gotta start somewhere, right?? He also said if it's ok WHEN dirty dancing etc... i could go on at the fucked up replies this guys had , but, well , like sunni finally pointed out ,
:"to answer your question, the only way your going to know if a particular chickie(i'm assuming you're a guy because i can't imagine a girl ever asking that question)
If she slaps you & runs away, you know she doesn't. If she grinds you back, you're in.
So , yeh , Welcome to bluelight.

ps ,LOL@ dr rico yi & SupaspeeD

heeheehee must remember those..
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fly high , but watch your head
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[sunni]

ROFLMAO @ SupaspeeD!
That's even better than 'Oi sluts' but i'm sorry to say, Tarsie, it only works if you're a feral, drunk, hackin' yobo, so don't bother hitting on me with that line because you just don't have the right quality about you.

 

[Tarsarlan]

Oh man! Life just ain't fair... Feral, drunk, hackin' yobo... Nope, can't do any of them, hell I don't even know what a hackin' yobo is... You've got weird taste in men tho Sunni so I don't think I want ya anyway

Another suggestion for J_Tee, as sweat leaf said, I guess we should give you a chance 'cos you are a Greenlighter after all, but well, the attitude that goes along with the stuff you're talking about just doesn't fit in with our enviroment... I'm not saying you've got a bad attitude, just that the kinda thing you're talking about doesn't go down well in the kinda clubs we go to, and you could get yourself into a heap of trouble (but at worst you'll get a slap, at least you won't have to worry about the girls b/f beating the crap outta ya)
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[Mr. Horse]

how on earth did i miss this????

 

[SupaspeeD]

Woah! headfuck, i just checked your profile and your from brissie. Welcome to BL

I must say, if your looking for body rubbing and dirty dancing, then you must only frequent the city, or the various lap-dance joints around town.
You won't find much chance in the valley (which i think it's safe to say, is the place for brissie BL'ers) where music and good company replaces cheap drinks and "hot sluts" as the entertainment.

Come to a rave meet-up like system 6 or Advent'jah, and you'll see how it operates in the BL "scene".
You won't see me rubbing anyone, but that's because my wack-ass "geographically different" dancing style won't let any chickidees near me, for fear of flailing limbs and my goofy expression

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A line that always works is "Hey baby, ever fallen over a tree ... ?"
"No ... ?"
"How about a root?"
Hehe, enjoy your BL experience, but you won't find many body rubbers here.

(only self body rubbers :O)
ciao, SD

 

[MunkE Mc]

dont mean to ruin everyones fun but did it ever occur to you that there may be people out there that use drugs and bluelight but dont rave? one prominant melbourne bluelighter of this type springs to my mind *cough*jb*cough*
yeah it might not be an appropriat question for bluelight, but then again this is the social forum where apparently pretty much anything goes.
secondly damn i wish picking up and dirty dancing wern't so frowned upon at rave clubs, i think it's time i headed off to heat this weekend, nothing better than getting down and dirty on the dance floor with some girl you just met a few minutes ago, and i'd bet it would be ten times as good if you were both peaking.
hmm i dont have issues
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"its all fun and games until someone gets poked in the eye...but even then its still pretty funny" -That lesbian comedian woman on the abc

 

[Miss Peks]

Ummmmmm maybe we don't have so called "dirty dancing" in so called "rave clubs" because it is so frowned upon, and probably more likely because the people there aren't actually there to pick up. They're there to dance and generally have fun.
That's all.
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It's all just a bit of childs play

 

[haste]

Is that where you were last nite MunkE

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"Well, me don't swim too tough so me don't go in the water too deep."-July, 1975 Bob Marley

 

[MunkE Mc]

dancing, generally having fun and picking up can all be done at the same time and this has a kind of synergistic (is that a word) effect
i know why its frowned upon in rave clubs, i was merely venting my sexual frustration
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"its all fun and games until someone gets poked in the eye...but even then its still pretty funny" -That lesbian comedian woman on the abc