Perfect date for this type of person?

[captainballs]

I certainly will - one of our favorite activities is staying in bed all day watching movies. And yeah, I somehow feel like she's capable of saving me from going off the deep end. One major turn-off I notice in her, however, that I now realize other people saw in me, is her brazen inconsistency as a person when she is fucked up. Really, when she is drunk. She feels her strongest but she is actually at her weakest - vulnerable to all kinds of bad shit, not limited to what can happen inside a strip club. I imagine situations that she will probably never talk about, where her being fucked up led her to some dark places with bad people - I can kind of tell.

Anyways, that's a good idea - and I really like her so it would be good to reconnect emotionally in this fashion after having been disconnected completely this entire week. Perhaps tomorrow night.

 

[rm-rf]

upscale art gallery or museum?

 

[RedLeader]

Alcohol is like that. It works as effective lubricant to help one follow through with the means that one really does not want to do in order to get some type of end. Stripping for drug money comes to mind. I never like seeing strippers drinking on the clock because it screams of this. In your shoes, I honestly don't think I could even use heroin with this girl, because it would ultimately, through reinforcing her (at least psychological) addiction, keep her stuck in that viscous cycle. In her euphoric post-injection face I would see the silent tears of her knowing that in order to feel that euphoria one more time, she would first have to drink away her inhibitions and get lewd in an uncomfortable place. And then come back to my bed the next day and be sexually deviant, not necessarily because she wanted to share her kinks with me, but rather so that all of the other lewdness didn't seem like much of a deal at all in her head.

Don't get me wrong, I understand that there's a very thin line between such a lifestyle being a huge turn-on and being incomparably depressing to another party. But I think that as soon as she stopped being the hot stripper with whom you were going to become a webcam pornstar and became some girl with a name and a sad story, it became an uphill battle for you. Kind of like the first time you realise that you're doing heroin to get rid of the sickness, not to feel euphoria.

I imagine situations that she will probably never talk about, where her being fucked up led her to some dark places with bad people - I can kind of tell.

As for this, I still think that you probably also have some situations about which you've never gone into detail with another person (or another person in real life), and you desire the day when the two of you truly can put it all out in the table. That's the saving I mean - saving yourselves from having to go to your deathbeds having never completely opened up to another person and anyone who loves or ever has cared about "you" really had those feelings for some character that you were playing. At least that's how it's been for me. It makes for a very lonely and unsatisfying existence. If this is at all how it is for you, I don't really have any good suggestions, maybe other than tripping together.

 

[Busty St Clare]

upscale art gallery or museum?

The local modern art gallery is by far my favourite date, we can simply hold hands and wander through the crowd. There is also a bar that opens out onto the river where you can buy a bottle of red wine and lay on a picnic rug. One time we synchronised our ipods with the same album and tripped the afternoon away. Even to this day that album is the soundtrack to some great memories. I have always wanted to reinact the skating scene in LA Story where Steve Martin roller skates through a gallery.

NSFW:

Another date would be taking an expensive sports car for a test drive. Dress up in a suit, wander in and tell them it is for your girlfriend as a birthday present then sit in the back seat as she grinds the shit out of the gears of a luxury european model while wearing a short skirt and high heels.

We have done the same thing in a luxury clothes store and I have sat in the man's chair while she tried on cocktail dresses worth thousands of dollars.

 

[modern buddha]

Another date would be taking an expensive sports car for a test drive. Dress up in a suit, wander in and tell them it is for your girlfriend as a birthday present then sit in the back seat as she grinds the shit out of the gears of a luxury european model while wearing a short skirt and high heels.

We have done the same thing in a luxury clothes store and I have sat in the man's chair while she tried on cocktail dresses worth thousands of dollars.

I'd be fine with grinding through gears, but that would be an expensive date, I'd imagine (to cover the cost of insurance for that car).

If I was ever taken to a luxury clothing store to try on "cocktail dresses", I'd ignore your phone calls after that.

 

[Busty St Clare]

I wouldn't date a girl who doesn't give head so I guess you are safe.