"Minor Attracted Person"??
I shuddered when I read that term
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I shuddered when I read that term
F.U.B.A.R.
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It's probably because he's addicted to meth. Possibly not the best drug to help with deep rooted psychological issues.
It's probably because he's addicted to meth. Possibly not the best drug to help with deep rooted psychological issues.
AbbeyLee
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That’s the first I’ve heard of it. But then, new language seems to appear every day. I’m not a fan at all.
MAP reminds me of NAMBLA (North American Man Boy Love Association) in the South Park episode about pedos. Except Minor Attracted Person hides the truth better.
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I dated a guy in 11th grade that was a star basketball player. One day, at his home, I found a stack of Polaroid photos of naked kids that we went to school with. These kids were from all sorts of backgrounds. There were some guys from the baseball team, a varsity cheerleader, a Swedish exchange student, and many others. There were about 30 kids featured in the photos.
I waited until summer, and then I called the crime stoppers hotline in my city. I ended up meeting with 2 police officers several times. We often met for lunch at a Japanese restaurant. They had huge photo albums that they wanted me to look through to see if I recognized anyone. Right away I recognized Bob, the fireman + a really bad guy (named Guy) who was on my city’s Most Wanted list. I knew where he lived so the police had me in the car to give them directions. Unfortunately he’d already moved. I told them that I would often see him with Danny, an 11 year old boy. The cops looked at me quite seriously and told me Danny had been murdered. Later, I had to make statements that were taped so I didn’t have to face these pedophiles in court. The basketball star had no idea that I had seen those Polaroids, much less that I was working with the DA to put these people in prison.
I’d slowly been pulling away from the guy I was dating as I wanted nothing to do with his sick, twisted Dad, and the cast of characters that hung out at his house. One night we were in his truck which was parked in the high school parking lot and he had been drinking, he brought up the fact that we’d never had sex, and he date raped me. After that, it was over. I ignored him completely all through that summer and my senior year.
Fast forward 11 years, I’m pregnant and I get a call from him. He wants to take me to a nice restaurant and show me his new car. I told him if he ever contacted me again, I would call the police.
My mother still had our old phone number and when he called, she was happy to give him my new number. That’s the angriest I have ever been with my mom.
I waited until summer, and then I called the crime stoppers hotline in my city. I ended up meeting with 2 police officers several times. We often met for lunch at a Japanese restaurant. They had huge photo albums that they wanted me to look through to see if I recognized anyone. Right away I recognized Bob, the fireman + a really bad guy (named Guy) who was on my city’s Most Wanted list. I knew where he lived so the police had me in the car to give them directions. Unfortunately he’d already moved. I told them that I would often see him with Danny, an 11 year old boy. The cops looked at me quite seriously and told me Danny had been murdered. Later, I had to make statements that were taped so I didn’t have to face these pedophiles in court. The basketball star had no idea that I had seen those Polaroids, much less that I was working with the DA to put these people in prison.
I’d slowly been pulling away from the guy I was dating as I wanted nothing to do with his sick, twisted Dad, and the cast of characters that hung out at his house. One night we were in his truck which was parked in the high school parking lot and he had been drinking, he brought up the fact that we’d never had sex, and he date raped me. After that, it was over. I ignored him completely all through that summer and my senior year.
Fast forward 11 years, I’m pregnant and I get a call from him. He wants to take me to a nice restaurant and show me his new car. I told him if he ever contacted me again, I would call the police.
My mother still had our old phone number and when he called, she was happy to give him my new number. That’s the angriest I have ever been with my mom.
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I have a young friend from another forum.. He found child porn on his dad's phone when he was a teenager. His dad is a lawyer (gone now). He was so traumatised
As a mother I'm glad her father would be like a raging bear if anyone touched her
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Horrible topic
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pedos don't need the dark web anymore, just subscribe to Discovery +.
I think it's too late for society.
If you have children, please protect them. Please parent them.
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I legit have existential anxiety nearly every day about the future
not my future
the future of the world, the future of politics, society and environment
it's actually detrimental to my health
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The future is indeed looking not so great.
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There is a reason I wrote that survivors have reasons for being overly suspicious and I don't question that. It's just a different response to mine and both are valid. I'm sorry you experienced what you did and that you share the pain of constantly listening to people harp on about pedophiles all the while knowing they would likely believe the perpetrator when crunch time happens because 'hes just such a nice guy' like honestly it is a bit sickening. Most child sexual abuse occurs inside the family, it just isn't talked about. I go to bed wishing I was raped by someone else a lot of nights because at least then it wouldn't be my dad. I don't get to have a dad. Even my good memories are poisoned by the bad ones. And anyone who experiences child sexual abuse understands the special way it damages you. It's hard to describe but the shame you carry around just destroys you.
Tbh, having a thread about survivors of pedophilia being able to tell our stories and be validated by people would do more good than this burdensome thread.
Probably a similar reason I went out and allowed men old enough to be my father fuck me while calling me a little girl and all that trash. Some victims recreate our trauma because it's all we know. I felt like I had to because I needed to punish myself and cause as much suffering as possible. I don't anymore, but for that 1-2 years I did sex work back in 2016-2017 I wouldn't screen clients for their mistreatment. I'd allow them to slap, punch, strangle me, beat me up. I just didn't think I deserved any better. I won't assume it's the same for @Joey but I can understand doing things like that from my perspective.
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both threads would have a valid purpose. Create one in TDS if you feel so inclined.
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TDS? Would that be your suggestion for it? I'm not disinclined to the idea to be honest, I think it would be helpful. I may just do that.
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FYI, I believe that NAMBLA is/was a real organization.
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"Australasian Man/Boy Love Association (AMBLA)." Eeek.
Do you know about the Japanese "lolicon" thing? That was in the news and it's an interesting topic I think. I mean it can be argued that it prevents some pedos indulging in porn with real children.
There was a big case in the US I think and I'm sure it remained legal there, whereas Canada and Australia had banned it. But now I see it's illegal in the US as well.
I don't know. Louis Theroux did a doco in a prison exclusively for pedophiles. It seemed like they were born with it and one guy actually got chemically castrated to try and rid himself of it. So on one level I do think it needs to be treated properly and not just by vigilante justice.
The Snowtown Murders involved psychopaths using anti-pedo sentiment to rile up the community. The ringleader, John Bunting, wasn't a pedophile.. He was a sadistic serial killer though.
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