taradactyldara
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My boyfriend and I have decided to have our first apartment roll together in October. I have taken e twice before, the first time was four months ago while seeing knife party (absolutely AMAZING) and the second time was last weekend seeing sts9/umphrey. This will be my first apartment roll, and this will be the first time my boyfriend has ever tried e. He is nervous about taking it, and I am nervous I won't be able to "take care of him" if needed. I wanted some help in our preparation for it.
1. I wasn't entirely sure what amount my boyfriend should start with/take that night. My first experience I had a cap full (not sure of actual measurements) and I felt pretty good for a while, maybe a couple hours. I think it was only a mild roll though, because last weekend was a much different experience. That time I started with a small cap (maybe 1/3 full), waited about 45 min, and took a medium cap (1/2 full) and was at my perfect amount, I felt great. Unfortunately I did have that roll killed by an upsetting conversation, so I proceeded to take another cap full about 2 hours later. Felt a little more anxious, but still felt great. I am much smaller than my boyfriend though, where I'm 4'10 weighing 110 and he's 6' weighing 215. I figure it's important for him to start with a small amount and go from there, but I guess I wanted just a ballpark idea.
2. I wanted enough things to keep us stimulated while we roll. Last weekend after the show, I did come home still rolling and found myself extremely antsy because there was nothing to keep me occupied. But that's only because I wasn't expecting to come home while rolling so I wasn't prepared. I want to make this the most memorable experience for him, so I wanted to have things that stimulate all of his senses. I'm going to get plenty of glowsticks, flashing things, anything with pretty lights, and my gloves to give him a light show. Is there anything specific you would recommend to watch/see? Youtube, movies, shows, anything, or even if you would recommend to not watch anything at all. When it comes to music, we are very far apart. I enjoy listening to techno/dubstep/trance/edm music while rolling, but mostly everyday music when I'm not (rap, hip-hop, rock, classic, alternative, country, etc.) He's not really into the whole electronic music, but he does find some catchy (like knife party or skrillex). Any ideas of music would be great because we are both trying to feel for what we like. For smells, I was planning on buying some vicks, although he says he doesn't want to try that (I have and very much enjoy the feeling it gives me). Is there anything else scent-wise that we could use? Also, I was told it's not good to eat while rolling, is that true? If so I'll skip the taste sensation. And lastly touch, the most important sensation in my opinion. I wanted to get some fuzzy blankets, fuzzy socks, fuzzy anything really. I was also going to get a mini-massager because vibrations are incredible. Any other ideas? After reading this big ol paragraph, are there any other activities/things to do that you would recommend? No need to answer with sex, we already have that covered (;
Before writing this I know I had alot more to ask than this, but I'm now drawing a blank. So if you have any other tips or suggestions, pleaseee don't hesitate to let us know. The more information we can gather by october the better. Thanks!
1. I wasn't entirely sure what amount my boyfriend should start with/take that night. My first experience I had a cap full (not sure of actual measurements) and I felt pretty good for a while, maybe a couple hours. I think it was only a mild roll though, because last weekend was a much different experience. That time I started with a small cap (maybe 1/3 full), waited about 45 min, and took a medium cap (1/2 full) and was at my perfect amount, I felt great. Unfortunately I did have that roll killed by an upsetting conversation, so I proceeded to take another cap full about 2 hours later. Felt a little more anxious, but still felt great. I am much smaller than my boyfriend though, where I'm 4'10 weighing 110 and he's 6' weighing 215. I figure it's important for him to start with a small amount and go from there, but I guess I wanted just a ballpark idea.
2. I wanted enough things to keep us stimulated while we roll. Last weekend after the show, I did come home still rolling and found myself extremely antsy because there was nothing to keep me occupied. But that's only because I wasn't expecting to come home while rolling so I wasn't prepared. I want to make this the most memorable experience for him, so I wanted to have things that stimulate all of his senses. I'm going to get plenty of glowsticks, flashing things, anything with pretty lights, and my gloves to give him a light show. Is there anything specific you would recommend to watch/see? Youtube, movies, shows, anything, or even if you would recommend to not watch anything at all. When it comes to music, we are very far apart. I enjoy listening to techno/dubstep/trance/edm music while rolling, but mostly everyday music when I'm not (rap, hip-hop, rock, classic, alternative, country, etc.) He's not really into the whole electronic music, but he does find some catchy (like knife party or skrillex). Any ideas of music would be great because we are both trying to feel for what we like. For smells, I was planning on buying some vicks, although he says he doesn't want to try that (I have and very much enjoy the feeling it gives me). Is there anything else scent-wise that we could use? Also, I was told it's not good to eat while rolling, is that true? If so I'll skip the taste sensation. And lastly touch, the most important sensation in my opinion. I wanted to get some fuzzy blankets, fuzzy socks, fuzzy anything really. I was also going to get a mini-massager because vibrations are incredible. Any other ideas? After reading this big ol paragraph, are there any other activities/things to do that you would recommend? No need to answer with sex, we already have that covered (;
Before writing this I know I had alot more to ask than this, but I'm now drawing a blank. So if you have any other tips or suggestions, pleaseee don't hesitate to let us know. The more information we can gather by october the better. Thanks!
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