passthatshit
Greenlighter
- Joined
- Feb 2, 2016
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- 19
Today marks nearly a year sober. You can tell from my username that I no longer relate to the individual who made this account.
Despite my trials & tribulations, I've done alright with myself.
Relapses, 3 psychotic breaks from reality, Psych wards, Police Reports, Couch Surfing, & anything else related to rock bottom, I've definitely endured.
I won't say that I regret my imprisonment. Rather, I'm grateful it happened. Nothing makes you appreciate life more than shaking hands with Death. I wanted death, or at least I thought I did. I was the most miserable person you'd ever meet. Anti-everything, to put it simply. I wished for nothing more than to rid myself of the chronic condition that is called Life. I romantized death, I devised a path to ultimate self annihilation. I thought well, if i'm going to be alive, I'm going to enjoy it in my own maladaptive way, ending with suicide before I reached 30. This mentality only worked for so long, given the fact I only exist in extremes, when I applied this to drug usage, I learned just how important moderation really is.
Another thing i've learned about drugs is out of everyway you could possibly choose to destroy yourself, they are probably the fastest & most effective method. I never knew how cruel things could get. I thought that I had surely experienced it all. I wanted to kill myself, but I also wanted to be in control of my downward spiral. As much as I enjoyed pain & chaos, I had a part of me that wanted peace & enlightenment. I was conflicted between 2 different personalities. A sadomasochistic sociopath, & a loving charismatic idealist.
For the longest time, my darker sides were winning. I had gotten into buddhism & decided it's time to let go of the mentality that left me in anguish for years. Day by day, I became more resiliant. I realized that I don't want to die. I only have one shot at this, & it's such a rare, unusual experience (to exist) that to turn it down because of my emotional extremes would be foolish.
Henceforth, I stopped caring. Began to focus on myself & things that are important to me. Focused on school. Set goals for myself, fixed my mental health. Changed entirely.
If you are having trouble with sobriety, think about this:
Just because your sober does not mean things have changed. If you still have the same mentality that you did pre drug usage, you will relapse.
You must change as a person in order to fully enjoy sobriety. It's a challenge, but the freedom & peace that you experience is worth it. You will have to work hard, change your thought patterns everyday but over time- you will have a huge transformation.
Good luck to you all.
-M
Despite my trials & tribulations, I've done alright with myself.
Relapses, 3 psychotic breaks from reality, Psych wards, Police Reports, Couch Surfing, & anything else related to rock bottom, I've definitely endured.
I won't say that I regret my imprisonment. Rather, I'm grateful it happened. Nothing makes you appreciate life more than shaking hands with Death. I wanted death, or at least I thought I did. I was the most miserable person you'd ever meet. Anti-everything, to put it simply. I wished for nothing more than to rid myself of the chronic condition that is called Life. I romantized death, I devised a path to ultimate self annihilation. I thought well, if i'm going to be alive, I'm going to enjoy it in my own maladaptive way, ending with suicide before I reached 30. This mentality only worked for so long, given the fact I only exist in extremes, when I applied this to drug usage, I learned just how important moderation really is.
Another thing i've learned about drugs is out of everyway you could possibly choose to destroy yourself, they are probably the fastest & most effective method. I never knew how cruel things could get. I thought that I had surely experienced it all. I wanted to kill myself, but I also wanted to be in control of my downward spiral. As much as I enjoyed pain & chaos, I had a part of me that wanted peace & enlightenment. I was conflicted between 2 different personalities. A sadomasochistic sociopath, & a loving charismatic idealist.
For the longest time, my darker sides were winning. I had gotten into buddhism & decided it's time to let go of the mentality that left me in anguish for years. Day by day, I became more resiliant. I realized that I don't want to die. I only have one shot at this, & it's such a rare, unusual experience (to exist) that to turn it down because of my emotional extremes would be foolish.
Henceforth, I stopped caring. Began to focus on myself & things that are important to me. Focused on school. Set goals for myself, fixed my mental health. Changed entirely.
If you are having trouble with sobriety, think about this:
Just because your sober does not mean things have changed. If you still have the same mentality that you did pre drug usage, you will relapse.
You must change as a person in order to fully enjoy sobriety. It's a challenge, but the freedom & peace that you experience is worth it. You will have to work hard, change your thought patterns everyday but over time- you will have a huge transformation.
Good luck to you all.
-M