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Nice Guys finish last...........always

I find it very amusing to see how many guys in this thread consider themselves nice guys!!! Maybe every guy thinks they are nice, you just dont think they are nice coz they are hot and look evil or something and have a hot chick. Jealous boys!!!
I would like to ask WTF is a nice guy anyways. I mean how do you define a nic eguy, just coz people think you are gay, and you let girls cry on your choulders and you are nice to them, how can you say you are a nice guy. It is a really hard thing to define because everyone has to have NOT NICE things about them. You cant be all nice!!!
Anyways i really disagree with alot of the stuff said in this thread, especially what PSeudo G said about chicks just going for the hottest guy. God that makes us sound so pathetic. I dont go for a guy for looks at all, although it can play a part in my initial attraction to them.
Anywas enough of my rant. But after all that id have to say my bf is a nice guy, me thinks, and i have always gone for the nice guys rather than the good looking/ arsehole guys that you talk of. People like that aren't worth it coz they treat girls like crap.
See ya.
 
No, nice guys finish FIRST, providing they hang in there.
Russ - I don't think that sig is going to help you find a nice lady friend dude. But with that Suby RS, you probably don't need one!
 
well here's the thing...i'm not saying i'm such a top shit..but i can consider myself to be a mr ncie guy...based ont he fact that my life is about "smiel and the world will smile with you"....
but to be honest with you...i think i have come to my limit where i have to be mr " le bitch" ...cos i have been realizing that there r lots of people that takes advantage of nice people....i dunno if it;s just me or it happens to everyone....
what do u reckon guys and gals?...should i keep my title as bachelor of PLUR alias mr nice guys...or i will have "tic after tac" as my philosophy of life??
 
ravy1: If you decide to stop being nice, you lose... Think about it...
Boppychick: I think a nice guy is someone who everyone says is nice... Rather simple hey? If everyone thinks of them as a nice guy, then I wouldn't blame them for calling themselves one...
 
At the end of the day I would rather a nice guy over some jerk who has no idea how to treat me right :)
But i dont want someone i can walk all over either..I can be a bit much at the best of times and need someone whos a strong person. None of my exes could handle me...
 
guys u all need to read pages 1 and 2 again, cause it seems everything that needs to be said, is already said.
and i tottaly agreee about nice guys finishing last.
i have a long story to prove my point, but im not goign to say it. :) :) lucky u.
 
Nice guys finish last, always... Not always, I've decided. Anyway it's all your own damn perception. You can finish last and be happy if that's yoru goal, or you can finish first and be unhappy because you didn't do better.
Fuck that. Just be happy with who you are, not whether people want you to be who you are.
Anyway SMART GUYS will finish wherever the fuck they finish, and they're the ones who'll be happy anyway.
-plaz out-
 
ravy1, this may not apply to you specifically, but...
there is a differnece between being nice and trying to appear nice by going out of your way to do things for people... which in the end some people WILL take advantage of.
i'm not saying dont do anything for anyone, but dont complain when people EXPECT you to give them a lift home, or shout them pills, or drive for 40mins across town at 2am in the morning so they have a shoulder to cry on, when you have done those things in the past just coz you want to appear 'nice'
M
 
"Anyway SMART GUYS will finish wherever the fuck they finish, and they're the ones who'll be happy anyway."
-thats right plaz!
 
So I have this friend...
No seriously I have a nice guy friend who totally believed this theory that nice guys finish last. I told him it was bullshit and that he just hadn't met any girls that were right for him. After two weeks of arguing we decided to experiment.
He split his personality and appeared and acted as an asshole, we actually kept track of his 'conquests'-(his term not mine)
Anyhow; after becoming an asshole within his world his conquest list more than doubled. It seemed that I was worng and that assholes really did get the chicks. He was happy with the wya things had worked out but something was wrong when i asked him he said that: no one took him as a serious relationship worthy guy anymore and he found that he felt more alone than eva, hard to believe that a person getting that much would be unhappy but he was. This lasted for a whole month, then his nice guy urges over took him and he went back to being his usuall nice guy self. The regular flow of ladies came to a halt.
The next week he met a girl that he realy liked and they were together for ages.
So yeah in a sence nice guys finish last, but it depends on what you're looking for, assholes cant keep their girls.
 
Tarsarlan: Just because someone/everyone says someone is nice, doesn't mean they are you know :) :) :) There are two sides to everyone and as i said before, everyone has things that are not nice about them. Some peoples 'not nice' things are just perhaps more recognisable.
Im not saying you guys aren't nice, but i think it is a bit pathetic of you to put down your 'losing streak' with girls to being because you are a nice guy. Us girls aren't all that shallow you know. Maybe you are just trying on the wrong girls!!!
:)
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[ 26 March 2002: Message edited by: Boppychick ]
 
babydoc_vic,
Just because I have a sick sense of humor, dosen't mean I am not a nice guy.
I promise.....
 
Boppychick: True, but in many cases the 'nice' outweighs the 'not nice'... Of course no-one is saying that anyone is 100% nice, but what I'm saying is that if someone has plenty of genuinely nice qualities and enough people know them well enough to know that they are genuine, then they can be considered 'nice'...
And for the record incase my previous posts were ignored, I don't believe that nice guys finish last if they don't want to... And I'm not in a race or playing a game, there is no finish line as far as I'm concerned, so I can't finish last or first...
 
Tarsarlan: Sure i agree with what you are saying, but we are both right here ya know??? :) I did read your earlier posts aswell and agree wiv stuff you say.
I am saying that most of you guys are blaming not getting chicks on you being too nice or whatever. Perhaps you shouldn't just put it down to this. There may be other factors coming into play. Chicks aren't all shallow and immature and dont all just go for the hot, bad guy kind of guys who bring excitement to their lives. A lot of chicks want to find nice guys too. Infact i think most girls would prefer a nice guy over a good looking areshole (not saying all good looking guys are arseholes here, coz that aint true.) Chicks look for lots of qualities in guys, aswell as them being nice. Perhaps its not your niceness that is making them not chose you, but the lack of other qualities??? I dunno but maybe...
Neways a lot of this theory that nice guys finish last... always, has been proven wrong, even in this thread there are guys (who posted earlier worrying that them being too nice was their downfall when it came to chicks) i consider to be very nice that i know that now have lovely girlfriends, for example DJC, and Mirage. So yeah, your theory has been proven wrong just here.
This saying that nice guys finish last is a big generalisation and i think it is totally wrong. It has been dispproven so many times, not just here. And anyways the guys that think they are finishing last because of their niceness are stupid.
We aren't that fucking shallow.
No offence to anyone though :)
XXOO.
 
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