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New, green and nervous, will I fit in?

Carolyne

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Oct 9, 2014
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Hi, I'm very new at this and really intimidated.8o not sure if I will fit in. Just want to get this hello out there into the void and see what happens. Will anyone reply and just say Hi?
 
Hiya Coralyne.

Welcome aboard, Bluelight t!

Of course you'll fit in. We're a welcoming bunch here.

Would you like to tell us a bit more about you ? That way one of us can direct you to a sub-forum, which may interest. / help you.

There's al new member intros social thread (stickied within the nmi sub-forum). You are more than welcome to join us. We have a laugh n discuss all sorts of different things.

There's also the adoption programme (again stickied) where current Bluelight members offer to act as a sort of friend to a new member in helping them settle into BL.

Evey
 
You'll be fine! Like all sites there are some trolls and some know it alls. Don't hesitate to call them out on their bullshit.
WELCOME TO BL.
It's the coolest site I've ever joined.
 
Can someone please help me find out how to edit my profile on my fone? I dont want people think im some weird old dude sitting on a couch with food all over yelling what at every noise lol
 
LOL flippingback! Click on the little box with the 3 little dots ( at the top right of your screen) and then click on the profile box. :)
 
Thanks Evey. One thing I'm uncertain about is the wording, vocabulary that I am unfamiliar with such as "stickied within the nmi sub-forum" sounds foreign to me. And since I'm new I'm having trouble navigating around the site a bit. Bare with me please. I am a 66 year old retired nurse. I live in NE Ohio USA and I am now living back at my home with my Mom who is now 90 and caring for her full time. She does wonderful, but just needs someone with her because of the ordinary problems of aging, such as forgetfulness and being a bit wobbly on her feet at times. I have abused prescription medications most of my life, off and on. I would go years with nothing and then slip back into taking an extra nerve pill (antianxioletic, I know you guys are pretty smart when it comes to these things) for simple functions such as party's at work, I'm always uncomfortable in social situations, etc. I did pretty good all my life as long as I was engaged, interested in something such as work, college, etc. Now that I'm retired, well, you can imagine. I don't remember exactly how DXM came to my attention but I was immediately VERY interested. It was legal, cheap and gave me exactly what I always wanted. Made me feel happy, outgoing, no longer painfully shy, and energetic but without the extremes of any amphetamine. I researched for about 5 months before taking the first plunge and took 250mg. in gell capsule form. Since then I have taken it almost every day (4 months now)and I know this is getting very serious and need someone to talk to. I have no family or friends who would begin to understand this. Please write back, it's nice to hear from someone.
 
Hi Captain, thanks for the note. I am really a newbie and am just trying to get my footing, learn how to navigate around the site, trying to figure out all the slang, hoping to find some compatible souls to talk with at night when I do most of my worrying and end up sleepless again. :(
 
Welcome Carolyne, don't stress I'm sure you'll fit in here really well :) Private message me if you ever have any questions about anything. :)
 
Thanks Evey. One thing I'm uncertain about is the wording, vocabulary that I am unfamiliar with such as "stickied within the nmi sub-forum" sounds foreign to me.

http://www.bluelight.org/vb/forums/143-New-Member-Introductions
when you click the link above (the New Member Introductions sub-forum; or, the place where you posted your welcome thread), you will see the threads at the top shaded in pink; they are "stickied" because they are stuck to the top of all the threads. :).

Hi Captain, thanks for the note. I am really a newbie and am just trying to get my footing, learn how to navigate around the site, trying to figure out all the slang, hoping to find some compatible souls to talk with at night when I do most of my worrying and end up sleepless again. :(

Of course! I have insomnia so I'm always up late-night. %)

I hope my explanation of what a "stickied" thread helped! :) <3
 
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