Well, I know not every man will automatically bone everything because my friend is a man and he didn't automatically bone me. And like I said, I am pretty sure there was a part of his mind that wanted to bone, but there was another stronger part that did not.
I could understand about not wanting to get naked unless somebody is with their significant other. It's too bad that in our culture nudity is a sexual thing. I really enjoy being naked and I enjoy looking at the naked human form (male and female).
I mean, we were all born naked; naked is natural, clothes are not. Clothes were originally invented in order to provide shelter from the cold, I think. Now, at least in most Western cultures) they exist because nakedness is considered indecent (which I think is ridiculous). And nudity being associated with sex is not something that is biologically automatic in males or females. We have been conditioned to associate one with the other. In places where nudity is commonplace and people are naked all of the time, nudity does not have the sexual connotation.
I read a book called "The Forest People," and unfortuantely I can't remember the author, but it was written by an anthropologist who lived with an African tribe for a few years. The people in this tribe were always naked, so people did not get all horny and aroused when they saw a naked person, and it was no big deal if someone's spouse was naked with another person.
However, when the women wanted to be sexually attractive to the men, they painted their feet red and painted white stars on their legs and buttocks. This drove the men in the tribe wild--it was the equivalent of an American woman taking off her clothes.
-Aura