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My hubby rather jack off than fuck me

Sorry you're going through this. Since the baby, mabye he no longer thinks of you as a hot girl but as a mother. This is the wrong way for him to look at you, and it will kill the romance. I have no idea how to fix this, but here are some ideas. Hire a nanny, the more hours the better and full-time if you can afford it. This frees up your time and should relieve stress. It will also keep you from smelling like sour milk, diapers, baby vomit, and baby oil. Those smells are turn-offs. Use a bottle, and do not breast feed. Most women in France bottle-feed and their children turn out strong and healthy. Nursing will probably ruin the shape and firmness of your breasts and nipples, at least that's the impression I get after looking at National Geographic tits. Men need visual stimulation, and the National Geographic look is the opposite of what most men want. Get in shape together. Exercise. Become thin if you are not already. French mothers stay thin. They do not get fat after having babies. I mention this because it is important to stay sexy. Unless the man has a fetish for fat chicks, being overweight is not sexy. English speaking countries now have a 66% obesity rate, but it is preventable, even after children. I don't know if this is even an issue for you, but anyway, make sure he does the same or else it's not fair to yourself. Or maybe he has fallen out of love.

Also, talk to him. Ask him what the problem is. He is not doing one of his duties as a husband. This is a very serious problem, and he needs to recognize that fact. You are husband and wife, not roommates. Tell him not to look at so much porn, at least not without you. If it comes down to it put your foot down and tell him this issue could end the marriage and that he needs to do his part.
 
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Was he in the delivery room with you and watched the baby being born? That could've been a big turnoff for him. I know it sounds horrible, but some guys are traumatised by that. If I were having a baby, I would make sure he stayed out of the room. That's just another possibility, but you need to talk to him because you shouldn't have to deal with a sexless marriage.
 
I have the same prob, been married 8 yrs, I do dishes , cook on occasion, clean, I have a good job with benefits , but my wife shows me no affection. I've told her how I feel but it hasn't helped. I feel like her brother not her husband. I know guys are the ones who need to sho the affection and be the man but for once I wish she would come after me , tell me that she wants me. I'm very sad And I don't know what to do anymore. I'm not perfect I have a lot of faults but im here. My heart is broken.
 
I know guys are the ones who need to sho the affection and be the man but for once I wish she would come after me
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I think feeling like this is completely normal. a man also wants to feel wanted by his partner. I personally get very disappointed when I am with a girl and she is completely passive and lets me do all the work. is she also neglecting you when you try to initiate intimacy?
 
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