I'm with my boyfriend going on 2 years now. We are both in our early 40's. He is currently on testosterone therapy for low test levels. It seemed to help at first But lately it seems like he has no energy for sex. He eats a pretty healthy diet most of the time, takes supplements and frequents the gym. (He has energy for that!)
Although we only see each other on the weekends, ( he lives in NJ and I live in NY) I do not think he's cheating.
He works a lot of OT during the week and is constantly texting and calling me. My sex drive is extremely high and he will not say no to sex. But I can tell he's not into it, which is a big turn off to me.
I've tried talking to him several x's and I don't know if it's me not communicating well, but he says he always feels like "I'm backing him in a corner" and there is really no resolution.
We do love each other very much and get along wonderfully and have been talking about moving in together in the future. But I'm afraid to make that step and end up in a sexless relationship.
I hate that I'm starting to become consumed with this and don't know what to do?
Although we only see each other on the weekends, ( he lives in NJ and I live in NY) I do not think he's cheating.
He works a lot of OT during the week and is constantly texting and calling me. My sex drive is extremely high and he will not say no to sex. But I can tell he's not into it, which is a big turn off to me.
I've tried talking to him several x's and I don't know if it's me not communicating well, but he says he always feels like "I'm backing him in a corner" and there is really no resolution.
We do love each other very much and get along wonderfully and have been talking about moving in together in the future. But I'm afraid to make that step and end up in a sexless relationship.
I hate that I'm starting to become consumed with this and don't know what to do?