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My bf doesn't miss me

Yeah Ty & np...I've been able to keep a lot more busy after finding this out, its given me something to focus on while he's gone, plus so many friends are now hitting me up with advice (its my first kid). But besides that, with us its been great again. He's also really excited so I think this gives him something other to think about besides grief. Probably a miracle, one life leaves this earth and another is made. I think it also explains why my stress levels have been through the roof, probably preggo hormones are part of it idk. I'm happy though.(:
 
Awwww congrats and I'm really glad you have started to work things out :)
 
Tysm & I'm glad too...usually were always great, its just dif when were 2000 miles plus apart I guess. Things are also easier now too cuz I've been getting on a dif sleeping schedule and not staying up all night like I used to (staying up all night till 4am sucks when your alone lol) so asleep by 11 busy with appointments and he's been touching base at least once a day now. No fighting, neither feels rejected haha. Just good stuff now.(:
 
I don think he's coming back. Ceptin maybe get his stuff. He's just thinking how ta tell you gurl. An I don't think he wants no brat running round his feet either. Do you have the number of an abortion clinic near ta ya. I feel sorry I can't help you but buck up and things will get good again meet a new man. I haven't heard of any man who says he's too grieving to see his woman for three months but is out on tha strip with his brothers gurl. That's not right there. He's only calling you now to get himself more time before he has ta tell you the bad news he's not coming home to ya.

Ya near made me cry when I hear you talking like everything's okay just cause he talked to you on the phone and hear you saying you getting your spirits an hopes all up, I really did, I know from experience you tell yourself its all good the relief from just having talked to your other half the one who make you feel whole but then the darkness comes round again and they still aren't there by her side where they oughta be. I hope I'm wrong I really do. I hoped I was wrong when it was happening to me... I weren't.
 
No he's def coming home...he's gone for 2-3 months because he has to sell the property. He's happy I'm pregnant, he's told his whole family and posted it on his Facebook, we've been trying for a year. His family calls me daily now (along with him) and sees how I'm doing and if Im making appointments. As for the bar...it was a family thing, his dad owned bars and his whole family went out to one of them kind of thing. I do think his sis in law is weird. But that doesn't change how I feel about him. He said he's gonna give the property another week and if it doesn't get any offers he's gonna drop it down 4k (its at 24k he's gonna drop it to 20k). A baby isn a bad thing, we went off birth control a while ago by choice. Yeah the first few weeks were rough, but that was when he was going through the funeral stuff now he calls daily again. Everything is good.
 
Space__Kitten said:
My bf and I met online 2 years ago, the he moved in with me, and we've been living together almost 2 years. His father passed so he had to go out of town, first time I've been alone here ever.

I've been going crazy and sad (because he had to fly back home) and its like impossible to get a hold of him. He never wants to talk (when he left he promised to talk 4 hours every day).

He always says he loves me very much and I know this. He was supposed to be gone 2 weeks but because of stuff in the will hell be gone 3 months. Then yesterday he admitted he said it sounded bad and not to get hurt but he just now started missing me and hadnt hadn't really missed me at all the first few weeks when I was missing him. It really hurts I thought we were closer than that. Then I tried to call him last night after work (I call him every night) and he didnt answer, and this morning he hasn't called yet and I know its around 11 his time so he must have seen my missed call. I only called once not to bug him.

Is it just me or should I be worried? I know he's going through tough stuff, but its hard when he said he hasn't been missing me and when he left we both were crying and now I can't get a hold of him.
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well i dont mean to be rude or anything but i wouldnt talk 4 hours everydya on the phone etiher. Honestly when you livw with sopmeone and then go away for a bit its normal to not miss them in the first few weeks.
 
Space_Kitten, that must be tough for you to have him not around, especially with the pregnancy thing and all that. Yeah I don't see why he wouldn't come back (as per Antecessor). He seems like a good guy and all, no reason for him not to, especially when you were planning to have kids!

I'm really happy that things have worked out. It is tough with you being pregnant and him having to be over there for a couple months but you'll get through it!!! <3
 
Spacekitten, I'm glad to hear your good news. It's normal to be moody and insecure.
With you newly pregnant, probably your emotions were all over the place, hormones changing and all that.

Congratulations! <3
 
Congrats Space Kitten this is great news!! So Happy that everything is going well.
 
Tysm I'm glad things are better, things are gonna be even rougher this week just because today I'm finally sticking it out and quitting smoking (had to work up to it), not even one yet today (im out and not buying more) and only had one cig yesterday..plus my hormones are all over the place I cried at work yesterday because I was late haha. I miss him and I can't wait for him to get back and help me with stuff and being pregnant. We're doing very well now and still talk every day. <3
 
you shouldn't be worried. As Bob Marley say "don't worry about a thing, coz every little thing is gonna be alright" - thoughts manifest reality.

You should however take a lil look in the mirror of your mind and ponder how much of your energy you put into him. Your name is space kitten, but I get the impression you're not used to it... (forgive me if I am wrong).

How many relationships have you had before this?

This seems like a rational reason why he might not have missed you for a few days/weeks - because he's liking having some welldeserved and needed space. We all need it. I was telling someone this earlier "we all need to be alone sometimes, but none of us never need be lonely."

It's good to be in ones own company, alone, internalizing and integrating what one experiences on a day to day basis.

Congratulations on the baby, still. :) Good luck.
 
so better is that call to your bf to your home and give a tight kiss to his lips and then approach to sex with you which he like may be vagina sex or anal sex and better if you suck his penis then i am sure he will never forgot to miss you.
 
What are you, 13 lol jk idk guys are like that somtimes, doesn't mean it's you. Plus, he's dealin with his dad and all that.
 
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