My 17 year old daughter is pregnant....wtf?

I am trying to stay calm, but I just found out yesterday that she is pregnant. She is going to the doctor tomorrow. I tried to put her on birth control but she would swear to me that she wasn't having sex. That was 2 months ago. So WTF. Why would she throw her life away? Has she learned anything from my life? I wanted so much for her. Now she is going to struggle and that there is nothing I can do about it. All I wanted was the best for her, and now all can I do is be supportive? I am just so dissappointed. Things were going so well lately.
I am afraid the man I love is growing distant from things going on with everything, but then again he says he isn't so I will trust him. I can't wait to see him. I could use a good cuddle.
I really want things to work out with everything because I am ready to move forward and have love and a good relationship with my boyfriend. He is my everything, besides my kids. I want my oldest to have a good life because she is all I have from my first husband that passed, plus she is always going to be my baby. I just never seen her as having a baby.
Any advice would be appeciated.
Thanks, Stella

 

you're right, all you can really do right now is be supportive of your daughter. i'm sure she's confused and terrified right now and probably needs her mama more than ever. you'll get through this. you're strong and always do.

 

Thamk you everyone. She is getting her OB GYN set up. thanks for your support.