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me0307

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Last night I spent part of New Years with my mom.

We started talking about my cousin who recently became a cocaine addict. Soon we were talking about crack, heroin, coke, and finally - marijuana (unce).

Her first comment was pretty common - "It kills your brain cells"

I immediately felt the need to educate, so I gave her about a 40 minute lecture on marijuana; surprisingly, she was quite attentive.

I then told her flat out that I do it about twice a month. She wasn't mad or pleased with the idea. But I assured her my safety (even gave her a brief lesson on how to deal with cops - which I doubt I ever will).

Then I asked straight up - "you should try it sometime with me."
SHE SAID YES!

Anyway, I plan on letting her use the vaporizer because she doesn't want to damage her lungs (plus I am asthmatic).

So I was wondering, what else I can do to make her first high a pleasant one? I'm sure she might feel a little awkward getting high with her son (I'm 18 ); is there anything I can do to try get rid of that?

Thanks for the advice in advance :)
 
I got stoned with my mom on my 18th birthday and my only regret was letting her smoke so much. She got way too stoned and even though she used to smoke a lot, it was just too much for her. Other than that, try to make the enviornment nice-- make sure there won't be any unexpected company, have drinks/snacks on hand, play some music or movies that you both like.

Smoking with your parents is awesome, I hope you two have a fun time!
 
My mother is a kinda "paranoid" about that... It sucks because i think she would take the life with another state of mind, she knows about my usage of cannabis and i wonder she'll change her opinion about that... At her age she discovers that her all life was dedicated to her family and that this will not be like before, i think she's nostalgic about the old times where me and my sister where childrens, in these christmas times, it makes her feel sad...
My father's on alcohol, he's not a drunkard, he just drinks a lot when we eat, that's not good for his health, he already had health problems with that... Maybe he should prefer to smoke weed pipe before sleeping than drinking a liter of red wine!
 
hendrix_420 said:
That wouldnt be the greatest idea if shes never done it before. Im sorry but ive gotten to many people high their first time to know that most dont handle it well.

Im thinking, she might freak out and think its much worse than it is. Ive been told by first time smokers "i think im dying" to many times.
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really?? man..my first time..it was AMAZING

ive gotten two people high for their first time and they loved it.
 
Dont let her get too stoned, if shes in mindfuck zone, it wont be a good experiance. You want it to be stimulating, not deliriant. A vape is a good idea also because the high will be less heavy and weird. Dont let her smoke amazing weed either, some people just cant handle it. Start her with some mids.
 
thats awesome youre really lucky to be able to smoke with your mom
that wouldnt float with my parents at all..
 
plan ahead.

you don't want to sit around and be playing xbox. think of perhaps going for a walk or doing something low key but id strongly suggest keeping your mum occupied (and away from other people).

and as others have said: don't get her too stoned. a single small toke of the vaporiser is surely going to be enough. you don't want her to freak out or get too philosophical on you.
 
Haha this reminds me of a 21st i was at a few weeks ago, rollin a few joints in the kitchen and a mates fiance's mum or granny comes in (she was like 50 or 60 n said she hadn't smoked since the 70's) so i start passin it around n she joins in, was the highlight of my night, she smoked almost a whole j to herself aswell. and then to top it off she starts buyin grams of the mate n then starts tryin to buy a quater but they wouldnt let her haha getting kinda off topic but i say go for it man just make it a nice relaxed environment n should be sweet!
 
My parents used to smoke all the time... when I was finally 14 or 15... I noticed that their "cigarettes" smelled funny. I guess they were nervous I was catching on... and they told me to go downstairs one day.... and they pulled out a bong...

hahaha i had never smoked before. My dad said if I ever wanted to try a drug he'd rather me try it with him this way he knows nothing bad could happen....

we smoked.... then I said okay i'll go upstairs now..I went to get up.... couldn't stand... then we all started laughing... and my dad had to carry me up the stairs... haha it was the best high i ever had in my life

i didnt smoke with them until a couple years later and i approached them this time...

i just made my mom comfortable... i wanted to cater to her needs to make her feel like it was for her.... i went food shopping for her... then we smoked and layed on the couch and watched lifetime movies... lol

know what tehy like.. and go out of your way to make it fun for them
 
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