and all these dead kids are simply the price society pays for this particular freedom
Bad choice of words, IMO. The dead kids aren't the price for a particular freedom, it is the price for neglecting several aspects of our society. I believe those intent on harming others will find other means if guns did not exist. I believe the problem is our society and our treatment of our fellow citizens. The gun is simply the tool to a means, and by far the easiest tool to use currently.
The only way I can think of a way to help is making private sales get a background check through a FFL before they can buy it. But then again, people can still buy it illegally.
I like the intent of ALL sales going through FFL background checks. It's a bit more hassle, and I get the gun lover's view that it is placing more burden on the law abiding citizens while criminals will continue to ignore it either way, but I like the intent. I could see going a step further, and paralleling DOT regulations - annual licenses in order to operate, all guns/vehicles are registered and inspected annually or bi-annually, proof of competency required to some degree (bad wording on my part, but I'm reaching for the fact that you are required to have insurance when you drive - which means all things are registered to you and documented with a scope of use = still badly worded). It would be a total pain in the ass for dealers, but they can pay for inspectors or auditors to come to them (they are making money off the weapons), and maybe for a personal gun owner with a lot of guns...which begs the question of how many guns do you really need and why? Owners of 1-3 weapons will get pissed, but it's minor like renewing your driver's license and car registration already.
This still leaves the criminals out of the system, but tightens control over every S/N weapon produced as it will have an equivalent of a VIN which then has a born-on date and info, and a history up to the point it finds it's way into the black market. At that exit point, the last person in control is accountable. This is a lot of burden, but I think would address as best we can the legal guns and create an accountable person for those that go to the black market.
What my idea omits is that I understand weapons are easier to make then drugs, and they are made everywhere and anywhere with relatively cheap equipment. This means there are mass quantities of weapons without S/Ns and no traceability. I'm not sure how many are smuggled into the US, vs made in country. But the only address I see for this is possession carries 10y prison term per weapon. Caught in a gang bang? Besides the trouble you normally have, you got +10 for the weapon. House raided and weapons found? Can't determine who's weapons they are? Home owner gets +10/weapon. This is rough, and from the hip, but my only thought on addressing it.
The for-profit health system/health insurance is definitely a big part of the problem, along with demonization of mental illness and a treatment-focused rather than prevention-focused medical care approach
Where I have a bit of an issue is people are pointing at the big easy targets (pun not intended) and missing the rest. "Gun control" because people got shot. "Health care" because the shooters are nuts. Has anyone here stepped back and asked - WHO are committing the most murders (nuts are a small % of society)? HOW (guns most likely)? And WHY are they committing these crimes (KEY!)? WHERE are these murders concentrated? And focus in on addressing that.
A dozen people shot on a campus takes headlines for days. Meanwhile you have 3x that many killed in Chicago over the weekend and nobody gives a shit. Are there more nuts in Chicago? Probably, but that's not who is committing mass murders. While a school shooting is tragic, and I'm not arguing that that don't need attention, if we as a society wish to move the needle for this country, put the spotlight on where the majority of these shootings are occurring and address that first. THAT will make more of a difference than stopping one school shooting. It won't get the same headlines, but it will save MORE lives, it will work to change an area (geography, social, whatever) where this is a serious and ongoing issue as opposed to a random shooting occurring in an unpredictable place at some unknown time in the future. Work at changing society where the thought of killing someone is not a consideration at all, life is not valued, fellow man is not valued. Address the foundations of society, where it has rotted, and I see us making a better change overall. THEN we can take on health care. THEN we can decide if guns need different laws. But right now, we have problems with our members of society - period. Guns are just a convenient tool.