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I've been robbed by an "escort"

evo4ever said:
Hello all.

I've got sort of an embarrassing/angry story to tell you guys...

A few days ago I met up with an escort with the promise of sex for 3 hours for £300/$408. When I arrived at her house I gave her the money up front and she wanted Cocaine which I ended up paying for and then she said she wanted me to stay for an extra 2 hours which I stupidly agreed to so I gave her £200/$408 so that's £500/$681 in total for 5 hours. I took the Coke and ended up talking too much, I kept hinting to have sex and she said "don't worry babe we've got enough time for that" so I said "okay". We gave each other back massages and then she started to get me to buy her jewellery online which I refused and then she said she's "tired" and wanted me to go an hour early. She probably wanted to see another "client" to swindle. Has this girl robbed/extorted me? I mean I got NOTHING for the money I gave her :X! I'm from the UK (white British) and she's from Romania (mixed race) and her English is bad. I know where she lives and she's got two kids and she's got no partner (boyfriend/husband). What do you think I should do? I could go to her house and demand for my money back (with protection of course). What do you think? Cheers guys.
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Well, *I* would turn up at her house (with protection 'cause I'm tiny), force my way in, if necessary, and get my money back, with interest.
Hooooweverrrr, I'm an asshole and the "right" thing to do is probably just cut your losses and find sex workers from a more reliable place in future...I'm sure there are websites, or word-of-mouth or SOMETHING. If you found one in the first place, you probably know where to look.
 
evo4ever said:
What she did to me was so shockingly cruel that there's no word to describe it, it speaks volumes about her character. I just wasn't expecting it, I didn't think anyone was capable of such an act! I keep thinking about it and it's probably going to take a while for me to get over it :(

PS: I've seen two escorts in the past and I had a very good experience. But this experience was the complete opposite in a very criminal way, it was next level stuff! She took all my money and I don't get paid till the 24th which means I don't know where I'm going to get food from, I'm in a seriously desperate situation now. This is why I wanted to try and get my money back. I actually thought about suicide, and women say men are bad!
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I’m sorry you found out how cruel some people can be. Believe me when I say this… she did you a favour. I know that sounds completely insane… but she opened your eyes to the depths some people will go to fuck you over and not give one single fuck as to how you were going to feel.

Some People are vile and completely fucking disgusting. They’re a disease… sometimes fatal. They feed off your weaknesses, vulnerabilities, naivety, and kindness… the more human you are the better for them. More to take from.. more to work with as they shatter your heart, your soul, and your reality. They’ll taunt you. They’ll destroy everything good in your life and laugh at your misfortune. They consider themselves powerful… especially if they can drive you absolutely insane. Watching you fall apart, as you distance yourself from everything healthy and hopefully discrediting yourself in the process is orgasmic to these pieces of human trash. Killing yourself due to their cruelty is the ultimate pleasure..

Now that you know such people exist, don’t allow yourself to let them win. Take back your power. Stand your fucking ground. Killing yourself because you were swindled out of hundreds of dollars and being humiliated is not the way my friend. I promise you… you will be a better human for having gone through something like this and coming out with the knowledge and understanding that these types of people are everywhere. Learn how to protect yourself. Never lose your voice.

I know it feels impossible right now. But you’ll find a way to continue. Reach out to local food banks… I guarantee you’ll find humans that want to help you. Help is out there.. though I recognize how tough it is out there. Seek out local shelters if you have to. I’m sure you’ll find someone at one of these places that can help you navigate your food crisis.

I’d also encourage you to lay off the escorts until you regain the financial stability. Your health needs to come first. The other stuff will fall in line once you become number one.

Don’t let the vile fuckers win. Your pain is real.. you matter. That girl is a master at what she does. You’re not the first and you’re not the last man she’s going to take advantage of. Don’t let this be the end of you. Learn from this painful experience and keep it close… don’t forget what she taught you. This is life dude. It can be truly awful at times… it can also be so god damn beautiful it fills your heart with joy. It can make your soul dance.

Seek out people that make your soul dance. I promise they’re out there ❤️
 
pixies+ said:
I’m sorry you found out how cruel some people can be. Believe me when I say this… she did you a favour. I know that sounds completely insane… but she opened your eyes to the depths some people will go to fuck you over and not give one single fuck as to how you were going to feel.

Some People are vile and completely fucking disgusting. They’re a disease… sometimes fatal. They feed off your weaknesses, vulnerabilities, naivety, and kindness… the more human you are the better for them. More to take from.. more to work with as they shatter your heart, your soul, and your reality. They’ll taunt you. They’ll destroy everything good in your life and laugh at your misfortune. They consider themselves powerful… especially if they can drive you absolutely insane. Watching you fall apart, as you distance yourself from everything healthy and hopefully discrediting yourself in the process is orgasmic to these pieces of human trash. Killing yourself due to their cruelty is the ultimate pleasure..

Now that you know such people exist, don’t allow yourself to let them win. Take back your power. Stand your fucking ground. Killing yourself because you were swindled out of hundreds of dollars and being humiliated is not the way my friend. I promise you… you will be a better human for having gone through something like this and coming out with the knowledge and understanding that these types of people are everywhere. Learn how to protect yourself. Never lose your voice.

I know it feels impossible right now. But you’ll find a way to continue. Reach out to local food banks… I guarantee you’ll find humans that want to help you. Help is out there.. though I recognize how tough it is out there. Seek out local shelters if you have to. I’m sure you’ll find someone at one of these places that can help you navigate your food crisis.

I’d also encourage you to lay off the escorts until you regain the financial stability. Your health needs to come first. The other stuff will fall in line once you become number one.

Don’t let the vile fuckers win. Your pain is real.. you matter. That girl is a master at what she does. You’re not the first and you’re not the last man she’s going to take advantage of. Don’t let this be the end of you. Learn from this painful experience and keep it close… don’t forget what she taught you. This is life dude. It can be truly awful at times… it can also be so god damn beautiful it fills your heart with joy. It can make your soul dance.

Seek out people that make your soul dance. I promise they’re out there ❤️
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Thankyou for the reassurance!
 
What exactly are you hoping to get out of escorts anyway? There's a good chance you can satisfy that need in a less risky way. You'd be surprised how many women are willing to sleep around casually, and if its just company you want, a relationship is always an option. Maybe your current situation makes that difficult or impossible, but if its important enough for you to risk getting robbed, maybe you can look at modifying your situation.

If you're one of those people that think you can never find anyone without a financial incentive for those things, I've often found myself surprised about who I see in a relationship or meeting girls for sex. You don't have to be some 10/10 extroverted model type. I have a girlfriend and I look like I just crawled out of a casket. I'm also poor.
 
Dude you almost killed yourself over a hooker doin ya dirty -- that should never run through your head. Consider yourself lucky she did not get at the bank account money and if you must use sex workers idk be smarter about it -- Lol prolly coulda got laid at the strip club (or other club) without paying. (especially if you willing to share your blow).
 
SotPoker1012 said:
What exactly are you hoping to get out of escorts anyway? There's a good chance you can satisfy that need in a less risky way. You'd be surprised how many women are willing to sleep around casually, and if its just company you want, a relationship is always an option. Maybe your current situation makes that difficult or impossible, but if its important enough for you to risk getting robbed, maybe you can look at modifying your situation.

If you're one of those people that think you can never find anyone without a financial incentive for those things, I've often found myself surprised about who I see in a relationship or meeting girls for sex. You don't have to be some 10/10 extroverted model type. I have a girlfriend and I look like I just crawled out of a casket. I'm also poor.
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The reason why I use escorts is because it's a quick and easy way to get sex, amongst other things. Like I said I've used escorts in the past with good results. But your right, I should find sex the normal way. I'm perfectly capable of finding a girl because I've done it many times before and I've got kids.
 
evo4ever said:
I've only got one kid and he's 19 so he doesn't depend on me anymore which means I'm free to do anything I want.
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Maybe my response was a little overinflated then. But when I see people post about taking their own lives I generally can’t help but to say whatever I can in hopes that something may stick out. You never know when someone is just ranting, or if they’re genuinely considering it. In my experience, it’s *best to assume the latter.

Glad you’re chatting with people dude. And I’m glad you’ve received so many positive comments.

Get yourself to a state of mind where you feel comfortable and content with yourself. Once that happens, your confidence will shine through and you’ll attract women that appreciate you and your energy. Take care of yourself :)
 
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