sixburgh
Bluelighter
Glad to see you decided to go for it. You might as well at least test the waters and see what comes of it.
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Is your ex's sister " off limits "
- Thread starter Heisenburg
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Jacksterini
Bluelighter
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Thats terrible stop thinking with your dick And think about how you can destru a family. If you want that karma surrounding you. Ive been attracted to alot of unnatainable people. Leave it as a fantasy
verso
Bluelighter
I feel the same way about this sister situation as I do the whole fucking-your-friend's-ex: off-limits.
It would be awkward, and it would inevitably cause some problems. I could see this working if maybe you went out on one date and then met her sister or something like that. It might be something that, down the road, the three of you can laugh about. But dating the sister of a long-term, now ex. girlfriend? Yeah... no.
It would be awkward, and it would inevitably cause some problems. I could see this working if maybe you went out on one date and then met her sister or something like that. It might be something that, down the road, the three of you can laugh about. But dating the sister of a long-term, now ex. girlfriend? Yeah... no.
footscrazy
Bluelight Crew
Yeah, you did. In fact apart from saying she's 'more honest', her physical appearance and how hot she is is about the sum of what you've described as being desirable about this woman. She's a younger, hotter version of her sister? It sounds to me like you're just looking to upgrade to the newest model. I think this is a terrible idea to begin with but perhaps if you'd given the impression that you valued the sister for her personality traits, her outlook on life, or your shared values, rather than just her appearance, it wouldn't sound so low.
I think you're just trying to justify fulfilling your own selfish lust. You've said yourself doing this will cause problems for the family. So what's the point of this thread? What's the question? You know the answer - it will destroy relationships and cause huge problems. So it seems thread is just your way of trying to feel less bad about the shit you were going to do all along anyway.
B1tO'RoughJack
Bluelighter
if you think it's mutual then it could be BUT have you considered that her sister might be trying to get one up on your ex?
I have no idea what their relationship is like - is it competitive at all, still?
Just talk to your ex wife, about what you have observed, and how you're thinking of playing it out a bit more. You don't need to ask if it's OK, your gut should tell you that...you do need to make sure everything is communicated properly otherwise you can burn bridges - it's up to the sister whether she wants to burn bridges too.
Talk to both of them in turn...maybe make a move first, then back off, so at least you know for sure that you ain't counting any chickens before they hatch.
I have no idea what their relationship is like - is it competitive at all, still?
Just talk to your ex wife, about what you have observed, and how you're thinking of playing it out a bit more. You don't need to ask if it's OK, your gut should tell you that...you do need to make sure everything is communicated properly otherwise you can burn bridges - it's up to the sister whether she wants to burn bridges too.
Talk to both of them in turn...maybe make a move first, then back off, so at least you know for sure that you ain't counting any chickens before they hatch.