Lysis
Bluelighter
Mariposa said:^Update forthcoming (nothing exciting) but to go a bit off topic: Lysis, are you from South Florida? I grew up there. :D
Yep, born and raised and been through all the fun hurricanes. :-/
Mariposa said:^Update forthcoming (nothing exciting) but to go a bit off topic: Lysis, are you from South Florida? I grew up there. :D
Johnny1 said:So perhaps there are statutes or court cases which make the question itself de facto discrimination. But no one has posted a link to such a statute or case. That's what I'm waiting for.![]()
Johnny1 said:I believe you both, gomakemeasandwich and DarthMom, and also thank you for your contributions to this forum.
But let me give you an analogy: I know someone who almost died because he was treated for an entire year for the wrong kind of cancer. He was diagnosed with a rare cancer in San Francisco, and received treatment at a special clinic that he didn't respond to. He was dying. He went to Houston to see another specialist, who insisted on rediagnosing everything, including new biopsies. My friend was reluctant to go through that, but he did and found out that he had Hodgkin's disease, not the rare cancer. Now he is in remission.
The lesson is that any professional has to do the work themselves, not rely on what people say. In this situation I want to see the statute or court case. Public employees tend to not know the law (especially cops). I think you are both right in all likelihood, but the deal is not sealed until the legal support is there. Even then, it would require a thorough research project to reveal the law's nuances and exceptions. I'm not in the mood to do this research.![]()
blackdog said:if you didnt get the apt and /or lease then it could be a problemo, however since you do have and are now living in the apt, whats the problem?apparently you agreed to pay the price for the privilidge to live there.
do you have anything against the jewish faith or jews?
just an innocent question?
dawg,
Mariposa said:1. I was not aware that my partner had been asked the question until several weeks after we moved in. My partner was not aware that the question was possibly illegal. He thought it was an innocent question, which it might have been. Had I known, I probably wouldn't have signed the lease.
2. I have nothing against anyone who identifies as Jewish by religion or ethnicity. I was merely asking if the question was illegal. For what it's worth, I previously dated and lived with a Jewish man for three years, and all but two of my long-term relationships were with Jewish men. Coincidence? Probably. In any event, I'm no bigot.