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In a tricky situation. Need some input from you guys.

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So, I won't make this long...need to keep this anonymous so props to everyone here at BL for having such a feature...I am a regular poster here btw and this is my first time posting anything anon.

Anyway, I recently had a friend (more of an acquaintance who quickly became a fast friend) who I only got to get to know for about 3 weeks or so tops, before he unexpectedly passed away from an overdose one random day about 6 months ago now.

Now, I had known his girlfriend that he was with at the time, and we were all friends. I also know of the problems they were having and how they didn't plan on being a long term thing according to him and the impression she gave off regarding her feelings about a serious commitment. Recently these last few months his girl has been wanting to hang out one-on-one, more and more, and I always got some kind of feelings from her that she was at least attracted to me (even when they were still together in the past), I know that at least some of you are very aware of the 'vibe' I was picking up...

I very much get the strong impression (pretty much every possible sign short of explicitly saying something to me straight up about it) that she would be interested in getting together sometime and hooking up/that sort of thing, not just 'hang out'. I didn't really know her ex too well so I definitely feel a little weird about the whole thing, but she is super hot and I just wanted to know if you guys thought that was a scummy move or not...I mean, this guy had told me before he had died that he was planning on cheating on her to which I replied that he should just break up with her instead but they were technically still together and it's not like they broke up and he's still around.

Thanks :)
 
If you two want to date, hook up, or hang out, I don`t see any reason why not.
She may still have some issues about him passing suddenly, and it`s possible you`ll have to deal with some of her unresolved issues about that whole situation. If you like this girl, and she likes you, why not take the chance?
 
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