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I'm 37 and still a VIrgin!?

I think you're delusional. When I was 18, I fucked a 31-year-old. There are definitely young women out there who are more than willing to be with a guy your age. Something I would recommend is working on confidence and learning 'what to do'. Sex in general is pretty straight forward and will come naturally, but feeling like you have an idea of how to get there is pretty important. Watch some porn, look around on some dating sites, mentally explore your fantasies. Figure out what you want and how to ask for it.

Personally, though, you're not missing out on much. Sure, it can be great, but it's not the end all/be all of everything. And odds are, when you finally do have sex, you're going to cum after two-five thrusts and be sorely disappointed in reality.
 
That's why this this entire thread I've been trying to encourage OP. He doesn't have to feel bad or worry. That right girl will understand. He could even say "I went through a breakup and haven't had sex in a year.", if he doesn't just want to admit he's a virgin. I've had guys tell me they haven't had sex in a year, didn't bother me a bit!

And honestly, there are guys I've been with who still cum fast and they are certainly not virgins. It happens with some guys, virgins or not.
 
Ziiirp said:
I fuck like a virgin. Women don't give a fuck. They just want to be desired. So I vouch, the age could be the bigger issue.

@OP : If you don't have moral standards, just find a call girl in your preferred age group. Should not be that expensive. In any case less expensive than financing a ~20 years old for being around for a while.
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How exactly does a virgin fuck?
 
nicholaswillick768 said:
How exactly does a virgin fuck?
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dunno

some people are good first time and others bad the 1000th time

my friend sucked my dick when i was 15 and he is probably one of the best alltime most perfect blowjobs and as he was "straight" and has a wife and kids now i doubt he had a lot of practice first time sucking me off. it certainly wasn't my first time getting sucked off so i had a good batch of bj's in my head to reference the quality against

its guess work. you make it up as you go along and try new shit out

virginity is a social construction in terms of meaning. it means nothing other than that you haven't contracted std's hopefully

if i like someone i like them, but you could be run over tomorro, how long can a man wait just to find out the fun/banality of sex?
 
at first time you fuck like a virgin.
I wouldn´t recommend pay for sex, that will make you feel like shit. Instead pay for a pick up artist. Look for Jad t Jones on youtube, seems to be a nice guy. They will charge you a lot of money but if it´s so painful to you it´s worth it because it will solve the problem once and for all.
 
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When you find someone, don't put too much pressure on yourself by going in with the sole aim of losing your viginity. Learn how to pleasure a woman without penetration first. Focus on the whole body. Pay particular attention to erogenous zones, and after you both feel turned on enough (maybe 20 mins minimum), work on making her cum by stimulating her clit; don't go straight for the clit. It's very sensitive, so massage the skin over the top of it - use lube - even moisturiser is good. She might be wet enough by this stage for you to use her juices as lube. You could also stick one, two or more fingers in her vagina too - gently at first, until her pussy yields more. The main g-spot is inside the pussy at the top not too far from the entrance, so give this some attention. With patience, you can make her cum about 10 times or more like this, but do be patient. If your hand cramps, use other parts of your body to help. She'll appreciate the attention you've given her and it'll help take the pressure off when it feels right for you to go with penetration. Not necessarily the same encounter. Talk dirty if you can too. I once talked dirty to this woman for about 2 hours non-stop before going back to hers. To say she was turned on is an understatement. I'm sure you can find guidance to do all this stuff online. No harm in practising beforehand. Also, remember women are equal to you. They need their needs fulfilled just like you do, and most will want you to do this stuff with them. It just doesn't have to be penetrative sex - at least initially.
 
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^ what's your problem dude?

That was a good post; why do you feel the need to troll?
 
I'd say there's no need to feel bad about yourself, but if what you really want is a partner, I recommend online dating sites. I always thought it was weird, but when my marriage ended, I went on Ok Cupid, and met my girlfriend who I've been with for 2.5 years who is just amazing. It's a good way to meet people, and less awkward. What you have to do is make a really good and honest profile. Put in some flattering pictures but not misleading ones. Write a lot. Then sit back and wait. In my experience I never successfully got a date with a girl I messaged, but when I waited for girls to message me first, I had very good luck. And when dating, just be yourself, don't play games or put on a front. If you're just yourself, it will either work or not work with someone, but at least you will be primed to start a healthy relationship.
 
Sex is a natural act and the whole point is to go through the process of discovery with someone else. Any women worth her salt will want to do that with you. Dont let anyone tell you otherwise. The idea that you must be "good at sex" is a socially constructed myth. Even the most awkard first time sex between two virgins can very easily be enjoyable, and also result in a child.
 
Sometimes sex for people is sex. They'll sleep with anyone some people don't get turned on by it like you. Have you ever been in a meaningful relationship? If not I think once you are in one, you'll have meaningful sex. I used to sleep with anyone and sometimes escorts. After my recent realtionship I don't want sex with anyone I want it with someone I've connected with the next great love of my life as it will be meaningful.
 
take the 100 people challenge, where you have to talk to 100 people in one month. That will help a lot you skills around people
 
Bro just power through it once, even if you don't like it. If you still don't want that, it's fine. As long as your cool with it, and truly happy​.
 
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