I wonder if he will ever change?

my bf hides things from me
doesn't tell me when he does things
it hurts that he doesnt care enouguh to want to share his life with me
I know if he did this to me months ago- I would be a wreck.
I dont really care anymore
I just feel empty and numb
I dont have the emotion to even be mad at him
I simply don't care.
I dont think I want him to live with me this summer
I dont think I want him period. Not when things are like this.
But I dont want anyone else either
and I dont necessarily want to break things off
Breaking things off is painful, I can't handle it now.
I guess I will just embrace my apathy
and live how I want to.

I wonder if he will ever change
 
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Dragynfyr
How the hell'd I miss this?

All those research chemicals and other drugs... The back stabbing and cheating... Who wouldn't feel empty at that point.

At least I broke it off for you. Still, wish I would have known you already checked out like this before going on that trip.

How the hell aren't you married yet?
 
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xxi135 said:
my bf hides things from me
doesn't tell me when he does things
it hurts that he doesnt care enouguh to want to share his life with me
I know if he did this to me months ago- I would be a wreck.
I dont really care anymore
I just feel empty and numb
I dont have the emotion to even be mad at him
I simply don't care.
I dont think I want him to live with me this summer
I dont think I want him period. Not when things are like this.
But I dont want anyone else either
and I dont necessarily want to break things off
Breaking things off is painful, I can't handle it now.
I guess I will just embrace my apathy
and live how I want to.

I wonder if he will ever change
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Just talk to him about it. Take it from a guy we are dumbasses. He may not even realize he is causing you distress by not telling you everything. Communicate. Thats key. Like i said we guys arent the smartest.. And you girls alot of the time are too smart for your own good in overthinking things. Obviously i dont know the situation but if he isnt abusing you. Isnt cheating...just isnt a good communicator. Take the lead. But dont do it in mean way.

Good luck
 
MomaDance
Cateturry3turrycan said:
Just talk to him about it. Take it from a guy we are dumbasses. He may not even realize he is causing you distress by not telling you everything. Communicate. Thats key. Like i said we guys arent the smartest.. And you girls alot of the time are too smart for your own good in overthinking things. Obviously i dont know the situation but if he isnt abusing you. Isnt cheating...just isnt a good communicator. Take the lead. But dont do it in mean way.

Good luck
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This is great advice. If he can’t at least meet you half way you’re wasting years of your life you could be spending with someone wonderful that cares for you, takes care of you and loves you. I know breaking it off is one of the hardest things to experience but in the end you’ll look back and wonder “what the hell was Inthinking!?”

just my .02
 
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