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i wish i had real friends

you have to look for friends in new places, i have no friends either tho, not much you can do, a job is how i meet most people.
 
Maybe you should change your own behavior. You yourself said you go around stealing from everyone so can you really be so surprised if decent people wouldn't want to be around you in real life? If I were worried about my mobile being sold for your next fix then I would stay away from you. Sorry to be blunt but it's the truth.
 
I feel the same way. In fact I relate to most of the posts I've seen you make. And I'm sorry about that, because it's rather unfortunate in most cases. Trying to get over the sheer loneliness fucking sucks though.
 
Represent for team loser like a true bench warmer. Be all you can be for your team. Fuck it.
I have zero friends I meet up with in the flesh, they all exist on this forum.
Go me, Go Team Loser.
 
Find new friends. Also get sober or off the drugs. No it's not weird I'm going to be 30 and I like American Dad. I have a friend that's older than me and he likes Sponge Bob.
 
are you living in a really shitty place?
my plan is to move back to the pacific northwest ASAP as soon as i am stable. seriously once i deal with my own head i am unwilling to deal with this small town bullshit again.
bestest luckies 2 u
shitty towns suck ass
 
People that are not junkies are the same way man. Most friends are not true friends. You are a lucky man if you can count the friends you can actually trust on one hand.

My point is don't worry you are not alone in this and look out for the ones that look out for you and use everyone else. It's sad I never had this outlook till about 17. After sever tramatic bs happening from 10 till then. I am know 25 and every year that passes i feel justifyies the way i am.

Chris
 
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i've found that just one friend with shitty boundaries who doesn't mind if i call them in the afternoon, furious, with the dead kennedys blasting, is really all i need.

one friend who accepts you at your worst is better than 5 who don't get it.

even extreme isolation is better than putting yourself out there, but sometimes putting yourself out there is the smartest thing you can do.

socializing sucks til you find people who are worth it. even still, i feel bad, for being such a fuckin wreck...

without em, i wouldn't stand a chance though. i say don't stop trying. or keep trying. and have someone kill you! who knows! better than never trying at all. so the heart-warming saying goes.
 
One last thing i wanted to add is if you are like me and have a hard time meeting people due to"breaking the ice" it makes it even harder to meet new people as we get older. This is my problem, im fine once the ice is broken and we have met.

Some advice I was given in this matter is just throw yourself into talking to random people at bars clubs and what not, The worst that happens is the other people are not receptive to you being there and you leave. Nothing really bad happened in that situation did it? I just try to think that. Plus is you do come off looking like a idiot for some reason then who cares? you will never see these people again and also who gives a sht what anyone thinks of you??? fuck em
 
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