wikiidgremlin
Greenlighter
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- Nov 15, 2015
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I have a problem. There's a girl in my life on and off for the past 8 years or so. When we first met, we just locked eyes and smiled...I knew she was the one for me. After talking to her, my feelings were reaffirmed (seriously, no pun intended.) We hung out for awhile, just as friends going to parties and clubs together. No sex, I think we might have made out once. She's been with other guys, me with other girls, but I was never able to begin a real relationship with any of them, because I am totally in love with this girl. She's the only one I want, but I'm "friendzoned", or so I think. We lost contact a couple years ago, and I thought that she was completely out of my life. I was sad, but I chalked it up to a loss, as I've found it commonplace to not be able to hold onto the people or possessions that I love dearly. Then, a little over a week ago, she called me out of the blue. She told me she found my number on facebook. We were supposed to hang out for the first time in years two weekends ago, but for whatever reason it fell through. I've been talking to her about every 2 or 3 days since. She wanted me to go to a wake for a mutual friend yesterday, but I felt like shit, and it was held at the same funeral parlor as my ex-fiance's services, and I didn't want old feelings to boil to the surface again. I'm going to call her tomorrow to see how the services went. My question is this: Does she love me as much as I love her? I think she does, but how can I tell? I want to ask her straight up, but I don't want to scare her away...
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