First off, Im bipolar, have OCD and go through a shit existence just coping with those two issues. Opiates are the only things that quiet the nnoise in my head but after 10+ years now the problems with the drugs are overshadowing the problems with the neurobiological issues. My self esteem is zero. My desire to live a normal life is a farce since a normal life seems beyond my ability. Im lonely and depressed all the time. Ive worked less than 2 of the last three years and contemplate suicide weekly if not more. My parents having to deal with my suicide is the only thing thats kept me alive this long. I dont feel I deserve to be loved for a myriad of reasons and see the future as blackness and empty. Ive at times convinced myself Im demon posessed as I cant imagine any other reason someone would have this shit in their lives.
How do you guys, who are able to comprehend my position, deal with it? To be certain, I WANT TO DIE AND WANT TO DIE RIGHT NOW. Ive spent countless hours trying to figure the best compromise between stopping the pain I live with vs inflicting pain on my family. Ive lost all my freinds from my drug use, cant explain the hell the OCD coupled with bipolar causes for me to anyone who isn in the same boat and the ony solace available (drugs) are now working against me to.
How do you keep moving forward when everything seems hopeless? You can break up with a girlfreind, quit a job, sell your piece of shit car and move to a better girlfreind, job or car. But this is my life/brain/addiction and I cant depart from them without departing completely. My dads a pastor, my mom an angel, my brother and sister upstanding citizens and perfect in every concievable way. My suicide would harm my dads ability to lead his church, not to mention devestate and cause long term issues iwth my family that im not ready to inflict upon them as its not their fault. Burying your own kid isnt the easiest thing to do and especially due to him causing his own death.
What stragegies can I use to keep my head above water when all I want to do is give up and die so I no longer have to live in daily hell. Im 35 and have lived this way for 10 years now. The thought of aonther week let alone another 35 years is unbearable but how do you explain that to your family who cant comprehend within 1% (my brother is a doctor and the only one i can talk to but even he only understands to a 10% degree) what I live with on a daily basis. Just like as a white male Ill never know what its like to be a black female my familiy will never ever be able to understand what its like for me to simply live let alone the efforts it takes just to keep from blowing my head off as its as foreign to them as being a black woman is to me.
I know im not the only one with these things in their lives. I figure if you answer you must still be alive so your advice is of some value. Right now i dont see mysef making it through the weekend.
If your religious please pray for me. If not please tell me what you do to cope. I want to die but i dont want to leave my mom and dad to live the rest of their lives blaming themselves nor living with the hole my death would create.
Please help.
How do you guys, who are able to comprehend my position, deal with it? To be certain, I WANT TO DIE AND WANT TO DIE RIGHT NOW. Ive spent countless hours trying to figure the best compromise between stopping the pain I live with vs inflicting pain on my family. Ive lost all my freinds from my drug use, cant explain the hell the OCD coupled with bipolar causes for me to anyone who isn in the same boat and the ony solace available (drugs) are now working against me to.
How do you keep moving forward when everything seems hopeless? You can break up with a girlfreind, quit a job, sell your piece of shit car and move to a better girlfreind, job or car. But this is my life/brain/addiction and I cant depart from them without departing completely. My dads a pastor, my mom an angel, my brother and sister upstanding citizens and perfect in every concievable way. My suicide would harm my dads ability to lead his church, not to mention devestate and cause long term issues iwth my family that im not ready to inflict upon them as its not their fault. Burying your own kid isnt the easiest thing to do and especially due to him causing his own death.
What stragegies can I use to keep my head above water when all I want to do is give up and die so I no longer have to live in daily hell. Im 35 and have lived this way for 10 years now. The thought of aonther week let alone another 35 years is unbearable but how do you explain that to your family who cant comprehend within 1% (my brother is a doctor and the only one i can talk to but even he only understands to a 10% degree) what I live with on a daily basis. Just like as a white male Ill never know what its like to be a black female my familiy will never ever be able to understand what its like for me to simply live let alone the efforts it takes just to keep from blowing my head off as its as foreign to them as being a black woman is to me.
I know im not the only one with these things in their lives. I figure if you answer you must still be alive so your advice is of some value. Right now i dont see mysef making it through the weekend.
If your religious please pray for me. If not please tell me what you do to cope. I want to die but i dont want to leave my mom and dad to live the rest of their lives blaming themselves nor living with the hole my death would create.
Please help.