To put it simply, I feel like no matter how attractive I am as a man, my female partners will always have an easier time attracting partners, and will have more to choose from. It seems to me that all a woman has to do is bat her eyes at a potential partner, and if she's even somewhat attractive it's likely she will have his attention. Is this just delusion, insecurity, or conditioning? Or am I correct in thinking that women will basically always have the upper hand when it comes to attraction?
I want to be happy for my partners when they find pleasure in others, but I'm finding it pretty difficult to stay positive about it when I think about how much easier it seems for a woman to fulfill her desires, than it is for me as a man.
I want to be happy for my partners when they find pleasure in others, but I'm finding it pretty difficult to stay positive about it when I think about how much easier it seems for a woman to fulfill her desires, than it is for me as a man.