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Greenlighter
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- Apr 26, 2010
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I use coke every 4 weeks or so but a lot at time (big out of control binges), it's not recreational it's abuse, it's compulsion.
Every time I swear I'll never do it again, like a stuck record I and my family are sick of hearing.
The fact is when I'm not using, I'm not unhappy, I'm not missing it and I enjoy feeling in control of my life and being normal, spending time with the kids etc.
So why do I still use? I don't understand... it's not even fun anymore maybe the first few hours but after that it's just out of control, guilt, shame, money...
It feels like 'it' won't let me go... but I feel ready to move on and embrace a drug free life. I want nothing more to be the kind of person who doesn't need drugs, who gets pleasure from non drug activities and I feel I can be that person 90% of the time... then a big bender comes along and spoils it.
I deny to myself that I can't control my use - which must be the addiction talking because i will use whatever is in the house and go back for more.
It doesn't even excite me to score anymore, it's just going through the motions now.
Not sure how to stop, I've said a few times 'this is it' but then an excuse will come along- a party, christmas, and I talk myself back into ti.
Thinking of making a commitment not to use during 2017 and see how I feel at the end of that, hopefully continue. I was going to have 'one last time' at new years but I actually think I need to start my commitment now to prove I am serious to myself and my partner... he's sick of hearing me say I'm never doing it again only to go out and score a few weeks later so I need to show him some action.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated
Every time I swear I'll never do it again, like a stuck record I and my family are sick of hearing.
The fact is when I'm not using, I'm not unhappy, I'm not missing it and I enjoy feeling in control of my life and being normal, spending time with the kids etc.
So why do I still use? I don't understand... it's not even fun anymore maybe the first few hours but after that it's just out of control, guilt, shame, money...
It feels like 'it' won't let me go... but I feel ready to move on and embrace a drug free life. I want nothing more to be the kind of person who doesn't need drugs, who gets pleasure from non drug activities and I feel I can be that person 90% of the time... then a big bender comes along and spoils it.
I deny to myself that I can't control my use - which must be the addiction talking because i will use whatever is in the house and go back for more.
It doesn't even excite me to score anymore, it's just going through the motions now.
Not sure how to stop, I've said a few times 'this is it' but then an excuse will come along- a party, christmas, and I talk myself back into ti.
Thinking of making a commitment not to use during 2017 and see how I feel at the end of that, hopefully continue. I was going to have 'one last time' at new years but I actually think I need to start my commitment now to prove I am serious to myself and my partner... he's sick of hearing me say I'm never doing it again only to go out and score a few weeks later so I need to show him some action.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated
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