kayladelmo
Bluelighter
- Joined
- Mar 23, 2012
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- 66
The guy I'm dating is nice, smart, polite. We've been dating for about three weeks and we hang out all the time. But lately I've been getting bored. Does this mean we don't have "chemistry"? I suppose I'm kind of waiting for that spark between us. Usually when I like a guy I feel really excited and happy(every guy I have liked in the past has used me/treated me badly)... but this time it's different. We were friends first. I enjoy spending time with him but I don't feel a rush of excitement when I think about him. Is this normal during the beginning of a relationship?
I don't know if it matters but when I started dating him I was NOT looking for a relationship of any kind, I had been previously working on my self-esteem and insecurity issues for a long time and am doing pretty well in that, still working on it. I am not really experienced in dating, I mean I've dated several guys in the past but none of them have treated me respectfully like this guy does.
I don't know if it matters but when I started dating him I was NOT looking for a relationship of any kind, I had been previously working on my self-esteem and insecurity issues for a long time and am doing pretty well in that, still working on it. I am not really experienced in dating, I mean I've dated several guys in the past but none of them have treated me respectfully like this guy does.