i dont even know where to put this unbelievable story: got asked to contribute skills to porn

[alarminglynefarious]

I know that i am new and a lot of you are probably thinking who the fuck is this guy...
I also know how unbelievable it is hearing me say "i got offered to be the male actor in a porno, with a smoking starlett"
i also know that it's even more unbelievable that she is the one that wanted me for the project in the first place.

i'm not considering it i told my adult film industry starlett benefactor that i had to decline. thats the kinda shit that defines your life, i am trying to make it during other things not that.
am i an idiot? my ideas of the porn industry is it completely destroys people. as a male pornstar i'd really be at the mercy of any starlett friends i'd work with cuz otherwise shit i suppose there are dudes willing to work for free.

if you can't beleive this neither can i because just this morning we were joking on this very forum about how much the "random guy" in "i let a random guy assfuck me and he came in my hair and kicked me out naked into the rainy street' probably makes. but believe it or not, this happened to me today. I DON'T BELIEVE IT STRAIGHT UP, but i know the starlett and the offer was real.

i half had to share this and half need y'all to tell me i'm not a fucking idiot.

 

[jackie jones]

You are an idiot.

If it is ethical pornography and you have the skills, do it.

 

[mtu mwendawazimu]

I'd say go for it, man.

It won't define you.

It's a side gig. May just be a one hit wonder.

Provide the link if you get that far.

Peace and love.

 

[alarminglynefarious]

honestly i thought about all the things you can imagine would run through your mind. i cant man i could not be that guy. it goes against a lot of who i am. porn is actually a nighmare industry to a lot of young women, and i am an exhibitionist sure but notto that big of a scale. it would change my entire life and not necessarily for the better - it would follow me around you know

 

[alarminglynefarious]

BELIEVE ME guys i spent about 10 min analyzing "yo im not tripping am i, how is this really a discussion im having"

 

[mtu mwendawazimu]

It's all good dude.

If you made up your mind you made up your mind.

Cool story though.

 

[alarminglynefarious]

umm for ego purposes
that was incredible

 

[alarminglynefarious]

i think i had my mind made up before the conversation porn was something i knew i never would do but everyone fantasizes about it at some point

 

[neversickanymore]

Id skip that as you determined,, love porn but it fucks with a somewhat bizarre essential drive and I agree I'm not down with places a participant my end up.

 

[alarminglynefarious]

You are an idiot.

If it is ethical pornography and you have the skills, do it.

it would be "ethical enough" in the sense that the starlett herself calls most of the shots but nothing about porn is ethical man. thats not what i want to represent

 

[alarminglynefarious]

Id skip that as you determined,, love porn but it fucks with a somewhat bizarre essential drive and I agree I'm not down with places a participant my end up.

i agree and despite what other people can or cant do i think every real relationsip i would ever have would suffer because i got sucked into the glory of piping a "diva" on camera for millions to see

 

[mtu mwendawazimu]

Can you at least tell us who this "starlet" is?

 

[alarminglynefarious]

also fine i do one video with someone i trust and would definitely make love to without cameras rolling when we lived in the same city we fooled around a few times she's a friend but then where do i end up the porn industry for dudes is like either suck dick or suck dick

 

[alarminglynefarious]

nah i cant do that sorry shes a close friend and im not going to be discussing the studio

 

[alarminglynefarious]

today a pornstar told me my dick could make her money... ego on a 10000000000000000

 

[jackie jones]

Why can't porn be ethical? Be nice to the girl. Make sure she is comfortable with her decision. Mutual pleasure.

There is a lot of bad stuff out there, and frankly situations and portrayals that should be illegal, yet that does not mean that two people cannot have intercourse on camera for money and the pleasure of others without it harming someone.

 

[jackie jones]

Fuck your ego.

 

[alarminglynefarious]

it should but isn't porn destroys young womens conceptions of relationships and even men nowadays. im not gonna say i dont watch porn, but the way the industry treats its people and the effects it has on them long term is well documented to be abhorrent

 

[alarminglynefarious]

oh the ego boost i got touche

 

[alarminglynefarious]

Why can't porn be ethical? Be nice to the girl. Make sure she is comfortable with her decision. Mutual pleasure.

There is a lot of bad stuff out there, and frankly situations and portrayals that should be illegal, yet that does not mean that two people cannot have intercourse on camera for money and the pleasure of others without it harming someone.

i agree whole heartedly with what you're saying here. in fact i have amateur footage up with multiple partners all over the web. but this is a bit different than the time your sophomore boyfriend leaked your sextape on pornhub.