Husband and bupe and maybe other drugs?

[BananasAndOranges]

Whomever said that meth/coke were a loss of a sex drive your partner must suck. Seriously. Whenever I did/do that stuff that's the only reason I would do those drugs, meth especially. Everyone I know that's used it has done it for similar reasons. Sure sometimes meth/coke can be fun but I've never heard of that unless something else is in the mix maybe its just me. ANYWAY-LostWife..psh..why don't you really make it clear you know what the deal is? Acting stupid , well thinking in your head , he doesn't do that or maybe?, makes him think you're dumb. I would think you were. Sorry just being honest. If someone saw addy, or bupe on my phone and im like no it means dogfood or its nothing and they were like OK I would think wow idiot. Hes obviously high as a bitch a lot. Throw it out there, shit maybe youtube the whole thing and post it thatd be hella tight, family feud, but cmon hes using drugs. If hes abusing bupe hes retarded though. Who the fuck besides a retard would use that and get high. Stupid. You're not the only dumb one obviously. If he gets mad then there is an issue that needs worked out. If hes denying the whole thing then you need to say your part and let him know you can't handle it anymore and just chill, and if he wants to use he can use weed only maybe? Is that a big deal. Shit those are my 2 rusty cents

 

[badandwicked]

^ while I don't agree with your tone, I agree that the OP needs to make her husband aware that she knows her facts regarding these issues. If an addict thinks you are naive or ignorant they will continue to attempt to deceive you. Knowledge is definitely power.

You must be feeling very hurt & betrayed LostWife - I agree with everything Zyggy said. And while I don't want to be alarmist, I don't think any addiction should be underestimated, especially an opiate addiction. Remember that support groups like NA are for family members also, not just the addicted. Good luck with all this, it must be an awful shock.