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I've been with my girlfriend for 7 months; our relationship started like a house on fire, and we still do share an amazing connection and have a fabulous sex-life. The problem is, I think we're both similar in that we haven't had a ton of sexual-partners and we both have only had one or two serious relationships. Once we met each other, we were both willing to devote most everything to each other, including our time. For the past month, we've been fighting on a weekly basis, and I think it is because I've been pushing her away based on the amount of time we spend together. I've brought this up before, but she got upset, claiming I was 'bored' of her, etc... which isn't the case; I simply need time and space to be the person that I am. Last week I basically told her I needed a break to see whether we could work out our issues, and she's gone out of town for two weeks. We've been emailing each other in an attempt to overcome these issues...
What is the best way to go about this? If I come straight out and tell her (sensitively) that I need more time to myself, isn't it reasonable to considering moving on if she can't handle it and gets upset again? Is there some other, more round-about way I can make it clear to her that I can't spend my entire week, outside of work, having sex and sleeping with her?
What is the best way to go about this? If I come straight out and tell her (sensitively) that I need more time to myself, isn't it reasonable to considering moving on if she can't handle it and gets upset again? Is there some other, more round-about way I can make it clear to her that I can't spend my entire week, outside of work, having sex and sleeping with her?