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How often do you have sex?

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I feel like sex is a big part of a relationship. I don't think i have sex enough, although i am the one to say no most of the time...mainly because i like the "setting to be right". how often do you have sex in a week or in a month?
 
only with my gf half the week (thurs pm - mon am) but we generally have sex 3-6x a day when we're together.

we have kind of an unspoken agreement that "no reasonable request will be denied." there are times where i'm tired and just want to go to bed, and times when i'm up early and wake her up before she wants to, but i don't think there's ever been a time where we've finished and either of us has actually regretted it.
 
I don't see my bf much. We work / go to school in separate cities so seeing each other during the week is not possible, the weekend is the only time. We only have sex like once or twice like every other weekend. That seems like so little! I wish we would have sex more but my bf is crazy stressed because he's in college full time and working like 30 hours a week after that and then tons of other things. Hopefully on his winter break and then when school is over, we'll have more sex again! Because the sex is always amazing! We are just so tired and stressed and everything all the time!
 
as often as possible.

I thought most posts would pretty much say the same thing.
 
aveoturbo said:
the problem is, if your into the ladies, they have that one week a month where you really dont want to stick your wang in there. Although, theres the old saying that goes: "If you can play in mud, you can fuck in the blood."
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Laugh my motherfuckin head off! I AM a lady! (Not in the keenest sense of the word, but I am generally in that catagory) AND I think men are incredible, but I don't need a "wang" in there in order to cum.
 
llama112 said:
I don't see my bf much. We work / go to school in separate cities so seeing each other during the week is not possible, the weekend is the only time. We only have sex like once or twice like every other weekend. That seems like so little! I wish we would have sex more but my bf is crazy stressed because he's in college full time and working like 30 hours a week after that and then tons of other things. Hopefully on his winter break and then when school is over, we'll have more sex again! Because the sex is always amazing! We are just so tired and stressed and everything all the time!
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maybe more sex will=less stress?
 
^I would agree. YMMV, but for me, sex is like exercise.

A - the more busy and stressed i am, the more i need it.

B - sometimes i might be feeling a little lazy or distracted, and drag my feet about doing it. but then when i get to the gym/bedroom, all of a sudden i have a lot more energy, and finish feeling really glad i went through with it.
 
It varies, but generally 1-4 times a day. I've never been after someone for sex the way I am with my current GF, if we miss a day it feels like a week.

the problem is, if your into the ladies, they have that one week a month where you really dont want to stick your wang in there.
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Speak for yourself. We just call that safe sex.
 
I'm in a long distance relationship but when we're together it's on average a bit more than once a day. Actually it was once a day when we weren't long distance.
 
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