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how much longer will my cokehead uncle live?

DOB

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my uncle is 33 year old.

he snorts cocaine atleast for 8 years.

his use isnt very extreme but he is not weekend cokehead too.


sometimes he stopped for maybe half year one time but he uses nearly everyday.



the thing is that he is one evil motherfucker,he attacked me and his mother & father to many times.He wight around 90kg and is 190cm tall,he was bodybuilder before so he have alot muscle,its not fun to be around him when he is going psychotic rage.


I want to know when this evil person is finaly going to get heart attack and die so we can live in piece.How long these coke addicts live?
 
Their is no way to predict his life expectancy - however , majority of bodybuilders abuse anabolic androgenic steroids and put an enormous strain on their hearts. This compounded with cocaine abuse could quite well lead to any early death.

Can you do something like contact the police - getting a restraining order out against him ? No one should have to tolerate being abused physically or mentally...
 
You and you're family must be under severe pressure from this man's behaviour DOB. :(<3

To echo AOW and booya, getting a restraining order sounds like the best option...
have you talked with you're parents about how you feel about this?
Wondering is there some kind of 'emotional obligation' on one/both of them not to intervene in this way, is he emotionally black-mailing the family or???
 
Yes take whatever legal action is necessary to protect yourself. Regardless of the reasons for his mood swings and whether or not he claims to be in control of his behavior when he does these things, you shouldn't have to suffer as a result.
 
Yeah, restraining orders, most definitely. Get the police involved next time he has another violent outburst.

You can't just will someone to die, as awful as that individual may be. I'm sure it's drugs that have morphed him into this monster that you fear...perhaps if there is a way to get him off of them that monster will fade away.
 
sounds like he hasn't had a good public beatin in a while. That usually sets people straight for a year or so.
 
theartofwar said:
Their is no way to predict his life expectancy - however , majority of bodybuilders abuse anabolic androgenic steroids and put an enormous strain on their hearts. This compounded with cocaine abuse could quite well lead to any early death.

Can you do something like contact the police - getting a restraining order out against him ? No one should have to tolerate being abused physically or mentally...
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I dont live with him,he lives with my grandfather and grandmother in Vienna Austria so the police can be called only by them but grandfather fear to call police becose he will revenge and grandmother is mentaly addicted to him and see world in way it isnt,she allways believe he is on good way to end his abuse but thats not truth,she will never call police.


I called police on him once for beating me twice,all they done was that they taken him out of house and told him to stay out 48 hours :(
 
booyaa said:
damn! it must be a hell for you and your family to have to deal with him.. he's too young though and however 'evil' he is, he's sick! So don't think you should wish for him to die, but be compassionate and try to help him instead.. As theartofwar said contacting the police would be one option, but the best option imo would be to make an intervention or something, take him to rehab or whatever it is to help him. He's family after all
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it is indeed very hardcore... I tried to help him last 8 years but he just dont want to stop,and thats cricital point,if he dont want it,then nobody can do anything really.


he is my family but I feel love or empathy towards him anymore,my unlce died 8 years ago,this rotten junkie is not my family
 
theartofwar said:
What's he like when he's off blow ?
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yesteday he called my 30x times asking me to buy him some coke even when


1. he is in city over hudred miles away

2. he knows I would never buy him coke



he is totaly out of reality,he knows I am stoner/tripper so he asumed that I have contacts to coke even in that city far away
 
Asclepius said:
You and you're family must be under severe pressure from this man's behaviour DOB. :(<3

To echo AOW and booya, getting a restraining order sounds like the best option...
have you talked with you're parents about how you feel about this?
Wondering is there some kind of 'emotional obligation' on one/both of them not to intervene in this way, is he emotionally black-mailing the family or???
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we cant send him to rehab against his will... thats how it goes in Austria



my parents dont live together and none of them live with my unlce,but I talked about it with my mother but we cant do anything.


he is emotionaly black-mailing my grandmother if I understand this term correctly
 
Steroids (if hes using) & coke, wow, what a mix. No wonder hes flipping out on everyone. He needs to stop the coke first. Seems like hes on a downward spiral & doesnt care who he hurts. Tough situation you're in. Your grandparents dont wanna piss him off & grandma seems to love him, dont know what she sees in him but none the less. I hope he doesnt abuse the grandparents, does he?
 
Fuck I know what it feels like...my mother was JUST LIKE THAT. it was hell for me for years and I just got out of it.
I left home. Now speak with no one in the family but that is my only choice to get out.
For you... try avoiding him get ot ect.
 
Just be thankful he is 'just' snorting.

Ifyou want to see fucked wait until he starts to find more 'efficient' and 'economical' ways to go. Then things will really go south.

In terms of life expectancy who knows. If he starts to develop cardiac symptoms (angina (sp?) ) then things have taken a step forward. He's still pretty young. Could take a while especially if he is in good shape.

I know people in their 50's who are still kicking in spite of heavy use and other things like hepatitis c.
 
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More I think about this - 2 things come to mind - first of all I've done things due to drugs that have found me being quite violent, more so than I ever would've expected. Looking back , I honestly hate that but recognize why I did what I did. So here's my thought - literally do whatever it takes to be in a place where he CANNOT get to you - let him live his life - I do hope he burns out , statistically isn't too great, for a long shot, but we gotta fuckin try quitting is the ultimate failure in life. If he can work out his demons , move himself out of that coke infested mind set / life - who will be underneath ?
It is quite rare (I'd argue it never has existed) that a person can claim that he killed due to steroid induced psychosis or if he wants to just use good ol "roid rage". This really is not reality - in this case, it would add tremendous aggression and frankly delusional grandeur if your uncle is running gear consistently...Maybe he goes back to training again , maybe he does whatever - point is he's gonna have to look back at all this shit he did dude. We all do. As soon as ou can pls find a way to protect of yourself first, then those you love close. Let this dude crash n burn , then you'll know what he is really about.

.... the village beating concept does sound nice though :-P lol
 
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