Emptty
Bluelighter
- Joined
- Apr 13, 2017
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The biggest pain in the ass regarding my recovery attempts has always been the fact I can't apply the label addict to myself with any honesty, I'll use the word to simplify explaining my situation but I don't see myself as an addict by any means. I recognize to a degree that this is denial but it makes quitting an almost impossible task. I feel out of place in treatment programs and at 12 step meetings, no matter how much people embrace me and say I belong I feel I'm taking up space and resources that I don't need.
I've asked people before if they thought I was an addict, got told only I can determine that. Asked people what made them realize they were an addict, got told they hit rock bottom. Problem is I don't really have a rock bottom. Closest thing for me would probably be death and by then it's to late.
I have plenty of excuses to not call myself an addict, no physical dependency (anymore), I can quit for short periods (just not forever), I can function as well as I usually do regardless of if I'm using. I won't pretend drug use never caused any problems for me but when I hear other people's stories I feel as if my issues are nowhere near bad enough to justify me using the term addict for myself.
So what was the final straw for you? Your rock bottom? What made you step back from the denial and admit to yourself you had an addiction you needed to recover from?
I've asked people before if they thought I was an addict, got told only I can determine that. Asked people what made them realize they were an addict, got told they hit rock bottom. Problem is I don't really have a rock bottom. Closest thing for me would probably be death and by then it's to late.
I have plenty of excuses to not call myself an addict, no physical dependency (anymore), I can quit for short periods (just not forever), I can function as well as I usually do regardless of if I'm using. I won't pretend drug use never caused any problems for me but when I hear other people's stories I feel as if my issues are nowhere near bad enough to justify me using the term addict for myself.
So what was the final straw for you? Your rock bottom? What made you step back from the denial and admit to yourself you had an addiction you needed to recover from?